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Posted 5/16/17
nah I'm all good for now
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Posted 10/23/17
I'm a pianist and I compete in less than two weeks
And I'm never satisfied
Let the stressing commence
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^^^^that is literally me right now
Also my Sister is a good person but she hurts me a lot(verbally) and I don't think she realizes that. I've become very timid when faced with confliction so I can't get my words without getting angry and that just gets my sister angry cuz she feels like she's getting attacked and will go on defense mode and start calling me things. I've tried to calmly tell her when she's hurting me but she shuts me down. I can't have a conversation with her unless I'm talking about something she likes and if I don't pay attention to something she's talking about she'll get hissy. She also holds grudges and will literally never let anything go. She may not bring it up until like a month when you do something that upsets her so she brings it up and make you real like crud cuz you let things go so you can't fire back or you're not good at in the moment discussion and instead need to think before arguing or things
*sigh* it's been making me stressed and been making me depressed too
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Ah, you lovely anxiety
Which is eating me day after day
Also this evening you're giving me a visit, I see
How lucky I am
Who gets you as my dinner guest
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Bro your profile pic looks like you got a blue partyhat on.
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Posted 11/10/17
I was stressed, then I smoked weed.
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Posted 11/10/17
I love stress and stress loves me! We can never stay without each other
Posted 11/10/17
When am I ever not stressed about something.
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No stress for me lately, it's a surprise and relief to say.
Posted 11/10/17
rawr!

okay..
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Posted 11/10/17
I'm going through something similar as you. I met someone during a period of great depression in my life and they helped me recover and find hope again. At that moment when I felt like my life actually may have had some meaning they basically laughed in my face and told me it was because they pitied me/needed to have some fun. While admit some of it may have been my fault for believing that this time things would be different in that I had actually found someone who really did care, it instantly destroyed all the trust I had in people. a

Not going to believe anyone like that again. The ice is back.
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Posted 11/10/17
I can't really say anything about this, but how do you call these people "friends" if they think you were going to rape her? If they don't really know you but you know each others names its mostly acquaintances.
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It stresses me out that my best friend from high school isn't talking to me anymore because I took a 4-month break from social media (I studied for pre-boards). I can't muster enough courage to start a conversation with her because of my anxiety.
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Posted 21 days ago

sky_flakes wrote:

It stresses me out that my best friend from high school isn't talking to me anymore because I took a 4-month break from social media (I studied for pre-boards). I can't muster enough courage to start a conversation with her because of my anxiety.


Just do it, OK?
Take it from me. When I started college, I cut basically all ties with friends from high school. Not on purpose, but because I'm one of the least social people I know (granted, given the statement, that's not a lot of people).
And for the first two years of college, I went at it mostly alone. While a valuable experience, it kind of sucked. But things are better now and I probably need to go take my own advice.

And that may have gotten a bit too personal, but whatever.

And, really, what's the worst that could happen?
Oh no, she doesn't answer and your relationship dwindles to nothing.
That sounded much worse than it did in my head, but bear with me. If the friendship is strong enough to last, it will, I think. If not, maybe it's time to close that chapter of your life.

Yeah, still much worse than I thought it would sound. Oh well, best of luck, sorry if that was a bit too personal
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zero356 wrote:


sky_flakes wrote:

It stresses me out that my best friend from high school isn't talking to me anymore because I took a 4-month break from social media (I studied for pre-boards). I can't muster enough courage to start a conversation with her because of my anxiety.


Just do it, OK?
Take it from me. When I started college, I cut basically all ties with friends from high school. Not on purpose, but because I'm one of the least social people I know (granted, given the statement, that's not a lot of people).
And for the first two years of college, I went at it mostly alone. While a valuable experience, it kind of sucked. But things are better now and I probably need to go take my own advice.

And that may have gotten a bit too personal, but whatever.

And, really, what's the worst that could happen?
Oh no, she doesn't answer and your relationship dwindles to nothing.
That sounded much worse than it did in my head, but bear with me. If the friendship is strong enough to last, it will, I think. If not, maybe it's time to close that chapter of your life.

Yeah, still much worse than I thought it would sound. Oh well, best of luck, sorry if that was a bit too personal


Well, she did greet me on my birthday recently. It's just that the conversation was not about much, just greetings and thank yous. Idk if it's because she doesn't have credits on her phone or if she doesn't like to talk to me anymore. While I'd like to remain optimistic about our relationship, my anxiety makes me think that it's because of the latter. I just wish she could respond positively.

But thanks, man. I appreciate it.
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