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So for the last 15 years of my life i have been alone for most of it and i just got sick of it.

Now i spend most of my time alone in solitude due to studying and stuff and friends being busy etc but i know one truth no matter what i do ...i can't be happy when im alone.

Being alone feels like the ultimate torture i want to be around someone else 24/7 but that's unrealistic.....im not depressed i used to be but being alone makes me feel like i want to give up and just collapse and commonly leads me to sleeping 15+ hours a day when it becomes extended.

I don't know what to do it's not a matter of bordem or not b eing happy with myself as i love myself and im never bored it's just....being alone hurts and feels worse then the pain you get when you stab your foot with a rusty nail or cut your arm or head open due to an accident and require surgery.

I just hate it
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Maybe pick up some new hobbies to occupy your time?

Being with other people is great, but it can become a crutch if you rely on others too much to satisfy your happiness.
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Posted 3/29/17

trmjkd989 wrote:

Maybe pick up some new hobbies to occupy your time?

Being with other people is great, but it can become a crutch if you rely on others too much to satisfy your happiness.


tried that hobbies don't take away the lonliness i feel tried everything i can do where i live and online that i can get into and like.
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You could have just cut the title off at "Never Happy" for me
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Ryulightorb wrote:

So for the last 15 years of my life i have been alone for most of it and i just got sick of it.

Now i spend most of my time alone in solitude due to studying and stuff and friends being busy etc but i know one truth no matter what i do ...i can't be happy when im alone.

Being alone feels like the ultimate torture i want to be around someone else 24/7 but that's unrealistic.....im not depressed i used to be but being alone makes me feel like i want to give up and just collapse and commonly leads me to sleeping 15+ hours a day when it becomes extended.

I don't know what to do it's not a matter of bordem or not b eing happy with myself as i love myself and im never bored it's just....being alone hurts and feels worse then the pain you get when you stab your foot with a rusty nail or cut your arm or head open due to an accident and require surgery.

I just hate it


It may sound like some sort of snarky or sarcastic comment that I'm about to suggest but it isn't meant that way. You ever think of getting a pet? It doesn't have to be something like a dog or cat even, I had a friend who had a gecko and another who had a pair of ferrets. It may seem a weird suggestion but it definitely helps with the loneliness factor. I went through an extremely bad time a while ago (after a breakup with my then fiancee and a failure of health) and it took a little Terrier to bring me back from it. He actually even got addicted to anime and animation . He'd sit with his head tilted and ears perked while staring at the screen.
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Hey, find an online community that you can relate to. It helps.
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