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auroraloose wrote:


paul25454 wrote:


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Of course. That relationship is over now, though; we had conflicting theories of world conquest. And we both viewed love as the state in which the two of us would join forces in conquering the world.

Love is a shambling thing.


Wait are you looking for someone to conquering the world with?


It's not something I'm actively seeking, but I'd prefer a husband who'd be a capable partner should world conquest be in the cards.


Well damn. That leaves me out.
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Well I was really close to confessing, my boyfriend and I had been friends for a while but I really liked him, never felt that way about anyone before, I got really frustrated cause I didn't know if he liked me the same way or not, so I set a date and told myself If he hadn't confessed or friend zoned me by that date than I would confess to him. He confessed one day before the date. Three years later still madly in love and happy.
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fredreload wrote:

How many of you confess your love in person and how did it turned out?


Well Ive told quite a few women I loved them and I ment it at the time I said it.
But as for "confessing" my love to a person that has never happened.

Once highschool is over romance changes a lot. All of this is refering to girls you meet after highschool.

What Im about to say is not always 100% true and Ill prolly get hate on for saying this but its true 90-95% of the time.

If you meet a girl build a friend ship with her over a long period of time you are not going to be able to turn that friendship into a relationship. Heck as soon as shes finds a boyfriend and has been in a serious relationship long enough she wont even think about you. So there is no chance to fall in love and confess your love without it ending poorly.

If you meet a girl in person you have 1 month to get her to your place. After that she will friend zone you or lose interest.
If you meet the girl online on FB for example you have 3 months.

If you can get the girl to come over to your house 80% of the time she will be up for sex.
If you dont get sex of any kind within the first 3 dates however give up. Shes not ready for a relationship and you are wasting your time.

If she has sex with you then make sure you treat her super amazing and emphasis you want to hang out again.

If she comes over again you have an unofficial gf. However dont be surprised if shes still sleeping with an ex or fuck buddy at this point.

On the 3rd time she comes over do something romantic and very casually say something like "we make a good couple you should be my gf" then play it by ear working off that to make it official.

At this point the word love should not have been mentioned as this word tends to scare women away if said to easily.

You wait about a week after being official for a moment you really feel you care about them and you just say you love them like its something natural to say.

At this point you have a gf for at least 3 months.

This is the most effective way that ive personally found to start a relationship.
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Technically yes... and it's a bit.... anticlimactic

One afternoon, after my class, I felt really hungry and out of the blue, I asked (with a really straight face) my friend who was walking me home. "Wanna go out with me?"
He said, "We are outside, but sure, where?"

So we went to a bar, and while eating I was asked why I wanted to go out with him, so I said, "I guess I like you...?" to which he replied in a really sarcastic tone, "You're not even sure huh...?"

Getting boring sooo long story short, it became a long dinner, we had a lot of banter, I was asked if I wanted to be his girlfriend, I said as long as I'm the only girlfriend sure yada yada

Before we finished, he pointed out, "that's it?" and unlike the anime that we watch, I didn't blush, sparkle or anything. That remark actually made me laugh a little...
Posted 4/10/17
Physically in person? No. I've not been in love with anybody physically nearby anyways.
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I've never even asked a girl out before, wether it be in person or not.
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I have never fallen in love (romantically) but I have told my family and my best friend that I love them.
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There is much I like about Japanese culture. The whole "confess your love" thing is not one of them. It's just strange
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I tried, but she always got busy.
Doing it via text was a dumb idea.
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Honestly I tried confessing about someone I cared about before and many times but now as it is at my age, having to have a moment like that would be great but would greatly suck if rejected like the 50th time in life about the woman having a crush on. lol. Confessing to someone about how you feel can feel awesome depending on the situation but it can be hard cause you know you want that moment to yourself and them. But doing it in public can suck cause you never know if you get turned down or told yes. But all I have to say is that there was one person I have publicly told I am in love with them and resulted in being told that I was too old for them when I was only 2 years older than them, to this day I am grateful it never happened because I wouldnt have made it to where I am now to learn trials and errors.
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