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I don't need to Assume fuck all to know that you are a manipulator. I even need to look at you in person to know that. I just need to look at someone for 10 seconds to find out if I can talk to them and trust them..... but you.... you're just to easy.

Let's just say that you find more friends...... Then what? What will you do? What do you do? Because I can talk to anyone on the fucking street if I wanted to. OH HI, NICE DAY ISN'T IT? HOW ARE YOU TODAY? People are either going to ignore you for 1. Respond with an empty meaningless response for 2. Or genuinely give you a proper response and open up their space to you for 3.

if you can't realize what kind of person they are from just simply trying to communicate with them daily. What's the point of feeling like you've been wronged? Don't be a sucker. Actually you should stop being a sucker and stop trying to be friendly when in all reality you aren't.

I can read you like a fucking book.

You want a suggestion, but you fucking blow off every so called assumption in someone's response in your reality. Maybe you should stop and think. You are hopeless, because you're to blind to see the real betrayer. Yourself.

I had best friends that I don't even talk to anymore, because I seen them for who they really are, and I don't bitch about it, I accept it, because acceptance leads to change for the better.



First off I'm not a manipulator so you got that wrong
Second off even if you talk to someone daily they can still surprise you and betray you also I am a friendly person please don't mistake me for someone who isn't.

If you can read me like a book you wouldn't be as far of as you are i blow off assumptions if they are wrong because why pretend something that is wrong is right that is illogical.

I'm glad you can just move on without being upset like that but remember not everyone is you I complain a bit too much but complaining isn't an abnormal reaction
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I´m sorry to hear about the things that happenned to you, Ryu. I´m sure that given time, you´ll find good friends that you can rely on :)

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I´m sorry to hear about the things that happenned to you, Ryu. I´m sure that given time, you´ll find good friends that you can rely on :)



Thank you and I hope so also there are good people out there so I'm sure I will find them
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Humms wrote
I don't need to Assume fuck all to know that you are a manipulator. I even need to look at you in person to know that. I just need to look at someone for 10 seconds to find out if I can talk to them and trust them..... but you.... you're just to easy.

Let's just say that you find more friends...... Then what? What will you do? What do you do? Because I can talk to anyone on the fucking street if I wanted to. OH HI, NICE DAY ISN'T IT? HOW ARE YOU TODAY? People are either going to ignore you for 1. Respond with an empty meaningless response for 2. Or genuinely give you a proper response and open up their space to you for 3.

if you can't realize what kind of person they are from just simply trying to communicate with them daily. What's the point of feeling like you've been wronged? Don't be a sucker. Actually you should stop being a sucker and stop trying to be friendly when in all reality you aren't.

I can read you like a fucking book.

You want a suggestion, but you fucking blow off every so called assumption in someone's response in your reality. Maybe you should stop and think. You are hopeless, because you're to blind to see the real betrayer. Yourself.

I had best friends that I don't even talk to anymore, because I seen them for who they really are, and I don't bitch about it, I accept it, because acceptance leads to change for the better.



First off I'm not a manipulator so you got that wrong
Second off even if you talk to someone daily they can still surprise you and betray you also I am a friendly person please don't mistake me for someone who isn't.

If you can read me like a book you wouldn't be as far of as you are i blow off assumptions if they are wrong because why pretend something that is wrong is right that is illogical.

I'm glad you can just move on without being upset like that but remember not everyone is you I complain a bit too much but complaining isn't an abnormal reaction




Oh I'm 100% right on the fucking money.

I bet you would start saying I love you about 2 weeks in buddy.

You think I'm far off from reading you, yet you just love to write about how much you have been wronged in your very short existence, and how little you actually do to actually not complain about pointless situations.

You're not happy for me, you're just talking Bullshit. I'm literally sitting here telling you how to change, and you won't do it.

How do I find friends that won't back stabbing me? Stop being a manipulator!!!!! You try to turn everything that you have done in your life on others for the sake of manipulating someone else to come crawling to you in terms of siding with you.

Like a dog with its tail between its legs one moment, and nipping at your heels the next.

I'm sure those friends are being very emotional for you right about now.
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Wait, is he talking about people he met online? Is that what this whole thread is about? I'm confused by the use of "chat logs" and "admin" in this story.
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Humms wrote
I don't need to Assume fuck all to know that you are a manipulator. I even need to look at you in person to know that. I just need to look at someone for 10 seconds to find out if I can talk to them and trust them..... but you.... you're just to easy.

Let's just say that you find more friends...... Then what? What will you do? What do you do? Because I can talk to anyone on the fucking street if I wanted to. OH HI, NICE DAY ISN'T IT? HOW ARE YOU TODAY? People are either going to ignore you for 1. Respond with an empty meaningless response for 2. Or genuinely give you a proper response and open up their space to you for 3.

if you can't realize what kind of person they are from just simply trying to communicate with them daily. What's the point of feeling like you've been wronged? Don't be a sucker. Actually you should stop being a sucker and stop trying to be friendly when in all reality you aren't.

I can read you like a fucking book.

You want a suggestion, but you fucking blow off every so called assumption in someone's response in your reality. Maybe you should stop and think. You are hopeless, because you're to blind to see the real betrayer. Yourself.

I had best friends that I don't even talk to anymore, because I seen them for who they really are, and I don't bitch about it, I accept it, because acceptance leads to change for the better.



First off I'm not a manipulator so you got that wrong
Second off even if you talk to someone daily they can still surprise you and betray you also I am a friendly person please don't mistake me for someone who isn't.

If you can read me like a book you wouldn't be as far of as you are i blow off assumptions if they are wrong because why pretend something that is wrong is right that is illogical.

I'm glad you can just move on without being upset like that but remember not everyone is you I complain a bit too much but complaining isn't an abnormal reaction




Oh I'm 100% right on the fucking money.

I bet you would start saying I love you about 2 weeks in buddy.

You think I'm far off from reading you, yet you just love to write about how much you have been wronged in your very short existence, and how little you actually do to actually not complain about pointless situations.

You're not happy for me, you're just talking Bullshit. I'm literally sitting here telling you how to change, and you won't do it.

How do I find friends that won't back stabbing me? Stop being a manipulator!!!!! You try to turn everything that you have done in your life on others for the sake of manipulating someone else to come crawling to you in terms of siding with you.

Like a dog with its tail between its legs one moment, and nipping at your heels the next.

I'm sure those friends are being very emotional for you right about now.


You are delusional there is nothing wrong with complaining atleast not from what I was taught I was taught it's ok to do so.
I'm not going to change into someone heartless
Also you don't need to be a manipulator to be backstabed people who purposefully manipulate others are scum I never turns things on people I take blame for my mistakes and blame people for theirs that should be how it is and that's how I act.

You come across as an asshole by the way first the assumptions now the "you got hurt you must be in the wrong" attitude which is fundamentally flawed on many levels and being upset when I don't want to "change" and become someone who doesn't grieve he loss of people I care about?! Why would I want to be someone like that people like that are no worse then manipulators and sociopaths imo.

I am happy that you can move on and just not care as fucked up as I find that if it means you have a happy life that is great since it doesn't harm others :)

Who cares if they aren't being emotional for me I am for them because I saw them as friends and that part of me is important to me to be emotional over the loss of a friend is a good thing.
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Wait, is he talking about people he met online? Is that what this whole thread is about? I'm confused by the use of "chat logs" and "admin" in this story.


Yeah friends I met online
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I don't think Ryu is a manipulator, I also think he is friendly.
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Ahem....

I'm just going to put this out there.


https://youtu.be/92cwKCU8Z5c

I recommend you listen to ABBA for 1 month.

I also highly recommend Dancing Queen. Money, Money, Money. And who can forget the timeless classic, Thank you for the Music
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IHaveAPhD wrote:

Wait, is he talking about people he met online? Is that what this whole thread is about? I'm confused by the use of "chat logs" and "admin" in this story.


Yeah friends I met online


Then you might want to look up the online disinhibition effect; I think that'll give you some insight and explain why so many of your online friends seem so "fake" or two-faced. Most people aren't that bad, it's just how they act online.
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No one said that and that's wrong I make mistakes a lot and I own up to them


"Own up" my ass. You jump to conclusions in a blink and play the victim, and then blame everyone else. No matter how people try to help you, you throw it back into their face and come up with incessant excuses. It's time to change.
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I think friendship means differently to everyone.
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For online friendships, it's tricky. I've never personally had anyone "backstab" me when it comes to irl friends, but I've definitely had a few from online do it. It's a lot easier to fake it when you're typing away on your keyboard compared to interacting face to face.

My advice would be to be a bit more selective when it comes to who you trust online. Treat online friendships as nothing more than casual until you know for sure they're trustworthy.

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Ryulightorb wrote:

No one said that and that's wrong I make mistakes a lot and I own up to them


"Own up" my ass. You jump to conclusions in a blink and play the victim, and then blame everyone else. No matter how people try to help you, you throw it back into their face and come up with incessant excuses. It's time to change.


Not true at all when people try to help me i take their help when its good help and take their opinions onboard.
I'm sorry you see me that way :(

you expect me to take bad advice such as take the blame for some wrong i never did? changing to someone like that and acting like im the cause of all my problems when i'm not is no less pathetic then playing the victim.

I would rather be realistic and own up to my problems when i cause them and not when i did not cause them.

You obviously don't know me that well but that's fine you have never taken the time to know me so i can't blame you.
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