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AppleFart wrote:

Why are you still in college at 27? Go out into the real world.


That's not my real age lol, not sure why I have that age set but I'm actually 18.
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It doesn't seem like she was leading you on. Since she gave you a real number. I say wait about a month or wait till she gives you a text or calls you. The key for you right now is not seem like you are desperate. If you see her still around campus before she leaves just say hi and ask how she been and if she was able to pass class you two were in.
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paul25454 wrote:

It doesn't seem like she was leading you on. Since she gave you a real number. I say wait about a month or wait till she gives you a text or calls you. The key for you right now is not seem like you are desperate. If you see her still around campus before she leaves just say hi and ask how she been and if she was able to pass class you two were in.


I think I'll just take this approach and talk to her after an exam we both have tomorrow and ask about how she did on that exam. Then I'll just wait and see what happens I guess.
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Posted 4/17/17
Real Samurai would be too busy for date, should be focusing on the way of the Sword!
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Real Samurai would be too busy for date, should be focusing on the way of the Sword!


I thought I would be focusing on studying in college lol, but then when I saw this girl I thought to myself I really want to get to know her.
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Now you must become her. It is the only way!
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Update: So I tried asking if she was back a month and a half later, she replied to me 4 days later. She said her phone froze (This feels like an excuse to me) and that she was back already. We talked a little about her trip and then I asked if she wanted to go out again sometime this week. She said she was too busy since she's in summer school and almost failed one of her classes. She also said she wants to go one day but when she isn't busy. So my question is, is she trying to tell me she isn't interested discreetly and leaving hints or can this be a case where she is legitimately busy again?


The phone freezing is believable, I wouldn't worry about it that much. It depends, how good are you on reading body language?
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Whether she's busy or lying, you should probably focus on someone else who actually has time to do things with you for now. When she has free time, she'll have free time.
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She's not interested bro move on. Also for future reference never expect a woman to hold true to her word. Her words mean nothing and are meant to sway the ignorant. A womans method of operating in the world is not based by logic, values, or prinicples. It is based on emotion, If a girl tell you she will go on a date and then "changes her mind" it has to do with what emotion shes feeling.

An example my sister had agreed to go and pick me up from a concert when it was done because I had no ride back. So time comes for the concert and halfway through I get a text saying " Hey I just got invited to a party so i'm not gunna be able to pick you up." Her feelings of (excitement and adventure) from the party made her totaly yeeee to that, and no to the (boring) driving an hour to pick up your brother cus he has no way of getting home.

Emotions rule women, if you trust them based on their words and not their actions you will get played over and over and over again.

Her actions spoke extremely loud but you only listen to her words.
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I've done this before, so if she's like me, yes she is just trying to put you down in a way that doesn't scream "PLEASE GO AWAY"
DISCLAIMER: The only way to know for sure is to ask her, even if one of these answers is correct WE DO NOT KNOW WHY THIS PERSON IS ACTING THIS WAY.

Just saying.
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time to move on get the signals
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Since she did message you back 4 days later so assuming you didn't send a few followup messages during that time... its possible she wants to hang out (casually). its probably best if you see her in person and just talk to her for a bit and go hey wanna go grab lunch/ coffee/ BBT or something first so she can get to know you better.
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tegan7 wrote:

I've done this before, so if she's like me, yes she is just trying to put you down in a way that doesn't scream "PLEASE GO AWAY"
DISCLAIMER: The only way to know for sure is to ask her, even if one of these answers is correct WE DO NOT KNOW WHY THIS PERSON IS ACTING THIS WAY.

Just saying.


This. Simply be blunt about it and ask, and then you'll have your answer. If you offend her doing so, then move on.
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Yes, girls are the work of the devil
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''''the fact she even talks to you pisses me off. your already a step ahead of me. """I HATE YOU!""""
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