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Dating a girl on cr, My Experience
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Posted 5/6/17 , edited 5/6/17
Can't trust jack shit on the internet these days. Which is why I roll mostly solo and keep a few close friends. But man I truly feel you. It truly sucks. But hey at least you found out early on before your feelings grew more. You're only 17 man. You'll find someone you truly love and not some dumb ass internet trolls.
Posted 5/6/17

xX_Dave_Xx wrote:

Can't trust jack shit on the internet these days. Which is why I roll mostly solo and keep a few close friends. But man I truly feel you. It truly sucks. But hey at least you found out early on before your feelings grew more. You're only 17 man. You'll find someone you truly love and not some dumb ass internet trolls.


Hey a fellow from ontario. I've been down to Hamilton a bit. Yeah I suppose I'll find someone eventually
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Posted 5/6/17

Hobomilk wrote:


xX_Dave_Xx wrote:

Can't trust jack shit on the internet these days. Which is why I roll mostly solo and keep a few close friends. But man I truly feel you. It truly sucks. But hey at least you found out early on before your feelings grew more. You're only 17 man. You'll find someone you truly love and not some dumb ass internet trolls.


Hey a fellow from ontario. I've been down to Hamilton a bit. Yeah I suppose I'll find someone eventually


Small world bud. I've seen plenty of people around from Hamilton.
Posted 5/6/17

xX_Dave_Xx wrote:


Hobomilk wrote:


xX_Dave_Xx wrote:

Can't trust jack shit on the internet these days. Which is why I roll mostly solo and keep a few close friends. But man I truly feel you. It truly sucks. But hey at least you found out early on before your feelings grew more. You're only 17 man. You'll find someone you truly love and not some dumb ass internet trolls.


Hey a fellow from ontario. I've been down to Hamilton a bit. Yeah I suppose I'll find someone eventually


Small world bud. I've seen plenty of people around from Hamilton.


Oh yeah it is man.
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This is why you don't "date" people that you've never seen an actual photo of before. "Pix or gtfo" before the love card gets pulled would have saved you from the eventual drama.


THIS
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Posted 5/6/17

luuhx wrote:

wow dude, this is why i don't date people online... i'm a little paranoid with "catfish" and this kind of stuff


catfishing isn't as common as people think none of my ex's (i have only dated online) have been catfish's.

that said there are a ton of shitty people those you need to watch out for ;P
Posted 5/6/17

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luuhx wrote:

wow dude, this is why i don't date people online... i'm a little paranoid with "catfish" and this kind of stuff


catfishing isn't as common as people think none of my ex's (i have only dated online) have been catfish's.

that said there are a ton of shitty people those you need to watch out for ;P


Maybe its common for everyone else and you have just been lucky.
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Sounds like you both had some issues with dishonesty, but it seems like she was more in the wrong here. She forced you to either sever the relationship or do what she wanted by saying "I love you." Yeah, you should have just straight up told her what you felt when she said that, but I known that's easy for me to say and not easy to actually do. She put you in an awkward situation that really shouldn't have come up until after you guys were dating for a while. Plus she wasn't willing to commit to the relationship and be honest, which makes me doubt her declaration of love.

I'm sorry that happened to you because experiencing that sort of thing can make you doubt genuine people in the future, but I'd use this as a learning experience. Never trust people who are too quick to say "I love you."
Posted 5/6/17

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Sounds like you both had some issues with dishonesty, but it seems like she was more in the wrong here. She forced you to either sever the relationship or do what she wanted by saying "I love you." Yeah, you should have just straight up told her what you felt when she said that, but I known that's easy for me to say and not easy to actually do. She put you in an awkward situation that really shouldn't have come up until after you guys were dating for a while. Plus she wasn't willing to commit to the relationship and be honest, which makes me doubt her declaration of love.

I'm sorry that happened to you because experiencing that sort of thing can make you doubt genuine people in the future, but I'd use this as a learning experience. Never trust people who are too quick to say "I love you."


I agree with ya. It was hard because it seemed she was hurt in the past and I just wanted to make her happy. And yeah she wasnt willing to be as honest as I was with her...
Posted 5/6/17
That sucks bro. There's a lot of strange people on the interweebs you gotta be careful. You seem to suffer from white knight syndrome.

Idk, if the girl willingly to commit and you are too, I think it's fine to continue a relationship. That means she should have to ability to talk to you and not through her sister. That's weird. Idk if she's trying to cute but wtf.

I had a relationship with someone on CR. A lot of them went poorly. Idk I think CR is just a bad place to date lol.
Posted 5/6/17 , edited 5/6/17

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That sucks bro. There's a lot of strange people on the interweebs you gotta be careful. You seem to suffer from white knight syndrome.

Idk, if the girl willingly to commit and you are too, I think it's fine to continue a relationship. That means she should have to ability to talk to you and not through her sister. That's weird. Idk if she's trying to cute but wtf.

I had a relationship with someone on CR. A lot of them went poorly. Idk I think CR is just a bad place to date lol.


She kind of guilt tripped me, I don't want to talk about it though because it private on her end. I did not want to make her sad at all, because she seemed so sweet and it sounded like she was though a lot and had troubles with things. I figured that I would try to lighten up her shitty life. So I just played along, I never really "loved her" i liked her though. I usually don't care but she was very persistent. I was not that willing to commit to someone so soon but she was for some weird reason. But If I show her my face I expect the same back. Also very important thing I left out. The accounts seemed to want me to worship them, like be super nice to them and it was fucking weird hence the white knight thing, the pressed me into acting like that with them. It was so weird.
Posted 5/6/17


She took advantage of you bro. Idk it seems like she had some issues with her. She can be open to you with her issues but not with her looks. Obviously she was using you.
Posted 5/6/17 , edited 5/6/17

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She took advantage of you bro. Idk it seems like she had some issues with her. She can be open to you with her issues but not with her looks. Obviously she was using you.


yupp. I mean I dont really care, But her insulting my mom was super low. That got to me
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Posted 5/6/17

Daisuki-Suki wrote:

That sucks bro. There's a lot of strange people on the interweebs you gotta be careful. You seem to suffer from white knight syndrome.

Idk, if the girl willingly to commit and you are too, I think it's fine to continue a relationship. That means she should have to ability to talk to you and not through her sister. That's weird. Idk if she's trying to cute but wtf.

I had a relationship with someone on CR. A lot of them went poorly. Idk I think CR is just a bad place to date lol.


The amount of times i have seen people tell someone they have white knight syndrome including to myself......well if i had a $1 i would be a wealthy man ._.
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Posted 5/6/17 , edited 5/6/17

Hobomilk wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


luuhx wrote:

wow dude, this is why i don't date people online... i'm a little paranoid with "catfish" and this kind of stuff


catfishing isn't as common as people think none of my ex's (i have only dated online) have been catfish's.

that said there are a ton of shitty people those you need to watch out for ;P


Maybe its common for everyone else and you have just been lucky.


I dunno i have known alot of people to meet there lovers online and fall in love then move countries and marry.
One of my ex's had family members like that.

Catfishing i hear about alot less online in general.
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