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Post Reply Why are people on this forum such dicks?
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Posted 5/28/17

Shipwright wrote:

Can we just acknowledge that most people on the internet don't give a fuck about other people's feelings? Being up front about not caring about the random strangers online seems more genuine to me than being super polite and putting up a happy facade. It is better to be dicks to each other right from the get go. That way, when wading through a sea of dicks, you might find one or two dicks you actually like and want to get to know better. If everyone is just polite all the time, you won't know what they're really like.


what about people who are actually nice and do give a fuck about how others feel though should they be dicks o.o
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I never realized how much I was in love with the user Naobuns till she was gone.
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Posted 5/28/17 , edited 5/28/17
Dude it's not only crunchyroll.
But there are some friendly people.
I bet everyone is friendly here so what don't you make friends here?


The user above me is very nice for example.
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I hate all of you.
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Posted 5/28/17 , edited 5/28/17
When I was 23 I somewhat wondered the same thing, though I never spoke up about it. As time went on I realized I'd do the same with others. While I don't go out of my way to be an asshole, I can be non-responsive. I suppose part of it would be desiring a deeply personal relationship (this doesn't mean sex) with out putting in the leg work. When the leg work is put in one comes to realize a deeply personal relationship is not what one imagined. You basically have to take the good along with the bad when we live in a world of widely diverse views. One of the hardest things I find is to not follow others just for the sake of attention. Drawing lines and boundaries can be difficult.


Ryulightorb wrote:
what about people who are actually nice and do give a fuck about how others feel though should they be dicks o.o


This can be difficult. I know I genuinely do care about the problems of people. This is especially hard when I see people going down a path I believe they shouldn't. It can be deflating when sharing ones thoughts and being told you don't care about the person.
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In the pursuit of friendship, every day is leg day.
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You must be new here, Welcome to CR!
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It's the internet and you don't know who is behind the screen I actual have made some friends on Cr.
so I would not say all persons dicks around here..
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Loominarty wrote:

so i have been crawling through the crunchy forums for a while commenting here and there especially on posts of people looking for others to chat or play games with etc but whenever i have messaged someone they have been cold and rather dickish, i just don't understand why people post looking for friends if they aren't going to be friendly to people who reply.

your thoughts peeps?


NO idea. I don't message people often and people don't message me often, but I don't hunt for friends, either.

I try to be friendly if the person messaging me is friendly. Maybe these people are just socially awkward? Maybe don't take offense. Or try.

Anyone is welcome to message me at any time, as long as it isn't inappropriate stuff.
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Just gotta look for the right people : )
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Mmmmm i don't know why, but you are also on this forum hahaha
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im the nicest person ever
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Posted 5/28/17 , edited 5/28/17
I am blunt, honest beyond what most people would consider polite , and I am not afraid to say what I am thinking and mean it. I am sorry if you expected sugar coatings and silk gloves OP but that's the way I am. And I highly suspect a lot of the people you call dicks are. This isn't daycare and if you can manage a computer then you're an adult as far as I am concerned.

Ya gotta learn to take a few knocks if you expect to get anywhere in this world, even the online world. Otherwise you become some useless mommy's boy still sucking back milk. Of course I am sure Lorreen disagrees with me though.
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This isnt a safe space my dude. If you cant handle some bantz, then this or the internet in general isnt for you
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As a trans woman I do notice this site is actually worse
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