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Lol, Normalfag Problems...

2D > 3D
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Potentsaliva wrote:

Lol, Normalfag Problems...

2D > 3D


No waifu no lifu
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Rujikin wrote:


Potentsaliva wrote:

Lol, Normalfag Problems...

2D > 3D


No waifu no lifu


I must have it mixed up then. From what I have seen having a wife means losing your life. At least, your single life...
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If I had a girlfriend or wife that gained that much weight overtime I wouldn't be attracted to her anymore too lol. I'm not open-minded enough to accept a person for who they are completely, I'm a bit superficial when it comes to appearances. If she still somehow still looks "normal" or her weight is only noticeable from her stomach then I might still be attracted to her, but gaining 65 pounds you'd probably notice the whole body looks "fatter".
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CrownedSonofFire wrote:


Rujikin wrote:


Potentsaliva wrote:

Lol, Normalfag Problems...

2D > 3D


No waifu no lifu


I must have it mixed up then. From what I have seen having a wife means losing your life. At least, your single life...


I heard you catch "onegina" if you get a wife .
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Yes? It's a valid reason.

You are attracted to something, it changes significantly, you may not be attracted anymore. You don't change what you are attracted to. That's one good advice we can take away from good ol' gay conversion therapies.


lmao that's true.
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hurtuoc wrote:


CrownedSonofFire wrote:


Rujikin wrote:


Potentsaliva wrote:

Lol, Normalfag Problems...

2D > 3D


No waifu no lifu


I must have it mixed up then. From what I have seen having a wife means losing your life. At least, your single life...


I heard you catch "onegina" if you get a wife .


Shit, and here I am trying to get A-gina.
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She's talking about the Health at Every Size movement, right? I guess it means that she really is heavily overweight now. Besides, nothing in her post sounds like she had an eating disorder or anything like that (desert 3 times a week, working out every other day, she didn't say anything about calories. Sounds normal to me).

If your significant other gained 60-100 lbs would you start to find them unattractive/less attractive? Would you consider leaving them if they got fat enough?

I know that I'd have a problem with it. I don't care too much about weight but 65-100 lbs is (usually) too much for me. A few months ago I ended a "special friendship" because he gained too much weight. Of course, a romantic relationship's something different and I don't believe I'd break up because of it but I don't think I'd still have sex with my partner.

Is drugging your significant other into finding you attractive even moral? Could it be considered a type of rape?

No absolutely not and yes, I think it's a type of rape.
You can't force your partner to be sexually attracted to you.
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This whole fat acceptance movement that these SJW's try to convey is absolutely disgusting. Of course you're going to become unattractive to him if you become fat, are you that dense? We as human beings are not meant to be over a certain weight for our respective height. Not only is it unhealthy, but it also steers a lot of potential soul mates away from you. Of course, we're attracted to what we're attracted to at the end of the day. Yes, some men prefer fat women, but more often than not, we prefer women who aren't cows. It goes the same way for women as well.

Personally for me, I prefer a woman that has the complete package and not just a portion of what I'm looking for. Slim, cute and a great personality with common interests. You can have the greatest personality in the world, but if you're overweight and don't take care of yourself like you should, that's a deal breaker for me.
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This whole fat acceptance movement that these SJW's try to convey is absolutely disgusting. Of course you're going to become unattractive to him if you become fat, are you that dense? We as human beings are not meant to be over a certain weight for our respective height. Not only is it unhealthy, but it also steers a lot of potential soul mates away from you. Of course, we're attracted to what we're attracted to at the end of the day. Yes, some men prefer fat women, but more often than not, we prefer women who aren't cows. It goes the same way for women as well.

Personally for me, I prefer a woman that has the complete package and not just a portion of what I'm looking for. Slim, cute and a great personality with common interests. You can have the greatest personality in the world, but if you're overweight and don't take care of yourself like you should, that's a deal breaker for me.


I agree with everything you said, but,I'm disturbed at the lack of "booty" in your complete package list.
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Am going leave my spouse because he gains weight nope but, I would get both of us into the gym
I usually workout with my hubby we encourage each other set goals and such if you love someone
and are committed you go thru those hard times together as a team.
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Rujikin wrote:


Potentsaliva wrote:

Lol, Normalfag Problems...

2D > 3D


No waifu no lifu


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mn_bLGhZCaY

hehehe
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Viagra is considered a rape drug? I don't think it impairs a person's judgment so the man should still be able to consent to sex. It appears as if he want's to have sex with her but just isn't able to. I think we can throw out the "rape" comments now. Thanks.

Lose a little weight. The whole fat acceptance thing is ridiculous. Being overweight is not healthy and should not be accepted. Yes, we should love people for who they are but we shouldn't accept anyone who is slowly killing themselves. Oh and I'm an overweight guy fyi before the flaming. As an overweight person I don't find overweight people attractive at all myself included. It's something I'm struggling and working on. I know...the hypocrisy right?
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The brief time I spent with my fiance while we were living together (2002-2003) she gained 95 pounds, kept blaming her weight gain on her thyroid instead of her changing behavioral pattern toward frequent ingestion of pizza, fatty comfort foods. She had maintained a tight regimen on weight gain, working out, attitude before we met. Gotta admit I was attracted to her superficially and because of that short-sightedness I inadvertently set myself up for quite the fall psychologically near term.

Long story short I called off the wedding 5 days before its occurrence account irreconcilable differences. I flat didn't trust her and was very tired of the incessant mind gaming. We would settle our differences amicably over "stuff" and then "blam" here came some more issues; always my fault, supposedly. I got tired of walking on eggshells anytime we were together. Something mental was going on that I was not aware of early in the relationship. She was always depressed, so much so she drank my 40-year accumulation of liquor in 6 months' time trying to assuage the pain. The time we were together I could count the sexual encounters we tried together on both hands with 3 fingers missing. This individual based her behavior upon the reward system. Needless to say, the remainder of the time together became a test of will, intestinal fortitude, tolerance co-existing until 1 broke the other psychologically. That relationship, though anxiety-ridden, was never boring.

Going back 19 years in her history at the time she had moved 17 times, owed $125K in school loan debt toward an unfinished PhD program at Vanderbilt University in TN which she wanted me to pay for, had filed bankruptcy 2 years previous to my meeting her through a friend. She had lived with (or tried to) 4 other men (3 were married, 1 didn't earn enough to suit her) after her divorce from her husband of 15 years before moving to SW Missouri to be near her parents, supposedly. She had demands which I quickly learned could never be met by any living being on THIS planet. Ah, the excuses you tell to yourself when you're 54, lonely with money (then, lol).

Reading your article suggests someone was superficial and incapable of change (for better / worse, in sickness or in health); hence, the enigma coming to terms with the weight preference over personality but I dunno. My present wife is overweight as am I at the moment. I sure am glad I found her (ty, e-harmony). She is the best decision I ever made enriching my so-called life. No regrets with this lady.
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blumonk wrote:

Viagra is considered a rape drug? I don't think it impairs a person's judgment so the man should still be able to consent to sex. It appears as if he want's to have sex with her but just isn't able to. I think we can throw out the "rape" comments now. Thanks.


That's not what the comments are about...

The problem is potential coercion, threats or verbal abuse which got him to change his mind. Basically, the woman admitted to yelling at him and dragging him into having sex with her even though he doesn't want to. Depending on what was said in that exchange, I think an argument could be made that she is obtaining consent through coercion which is a type of rape (although the line changes depending on the state).
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