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Wife gains 65 pounds, husband no longer attracted to her.
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Posted 5/27/17 , edited 5/27/17

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I wonder what she weighed at the start. 65 pounds though that's a large gain.


Dunno but that is a big change. Personally I can't date fat people because I find fat to be disgusting.


Yeah same goes for me. I can't date anyone overweight.

I mean honestly she could put more effort forward instead of just getting fatter. Maybe eat better and go to the gym or go for a walk or something.
Since her weight is something she can change with a little effort maybe she should instead of making her husband get boner pills to fuck her.
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But no one knows that unless she posts exactly what was said. Sure we can assume that she guilt tripped the guy but we also don't know if maybe he really wanted to find a temporary solution. I'm just suggesting not siding with anything because it's all in the realm of possibility.
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it's not surprising that her husband didn't feel physically attracted to her - she was obese after the weight gain.
you don't just gain 65 pound overnight though. makes you wonder what caused the weight gain, and why her husband said nothing until much later.
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It's just as important to maintain physical attraction to each other as much as it is the emotional attraction.

Can't blame the husband for not being physically attracted to her, but yes, she should lose the extra weight, both because it's not healthy and because she seems super entitled. If people don't find you attractive then don't yell at them, just lose the weight since your husband is doing his part in being supportive of you again.
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Posted 5/27/17 , edited 5/27/17

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But no one knows that unless she posts exactly what was said. Sure we can assume that she guilt tripped the guy but we also don't know if maybe he really wanted to find a temporary solution. I'm just suggesting not siding with anything because it's all in the realm of possibility.


I don't think anyone is lighting the torches and sharpening the pitchforks, just saying that this sounds like it's in the realm of rape. Which it does.
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This is why you don't get married anymore. Stay single and have fun. You can leave at any time they decide to become a blimp. It's almost all women these days too.
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This thread really got me thinking about how the opinion on beauty is in a constant state of flux
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Find them less attractive sure but dumping them or divorcing just because they are now fat or no longer attractive is beyond childish and just pathetic.

drugging some is awful
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I like my women a bit on the thicc side but I do not, I repeat, I do NOT like fat chicks. What's the difference? Well thicc can still get into jeans without spilling over the edge of them, thicc still looks fairly flat from the side, thicc isn't fat but thicc definitely isn't thin either.
And this isn't a choice, that's just what starts the ignition. If it doesn't work for you there isn't a lot you can do about, love them or not. So I completely understand not finding someone attractive after putting on 65 pounds (if someone in my preference range put on 65 pounds I'd need to call the damn Norwegians). Hell I personally lost over 90 so I get super salty when people try to make excuses for their weight.
Love doesn't make you suddenly find shit attractive that usually repulses you, sorry to say.
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This is why you don't get married anymore. Stay single and have fun. You can leave at any time they decide to become a blimp. It's almost all women these days too.


How do you manage to have a faithful monogamous relationship when single then
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This whole fat acceptance movement that these SJW's try to convey is absolutely disgusting. Of course you're going to become unattractive to him if you become fat, are you that dense? We as human beings are not meant to be over a certain weight for our respective height. Not only is it unhealthy, but it also steers a lot of potential soul mates away from you. Of course, we're attracted to what we're attracted to at the end of the day. Yes, some men prefer fat women, but more often than not, we prefer women who aren't cows. It goes the same way for women as well.

Personally for me, I prefer a woman that has the complete package and not just a portion of what I'm looking for. Slim, cute and a great personality with common interests. You can have the greatest personality in the world, but if you're overweight and don't take care of yourself like you should, that's a deal breaker for me.


on the plus side being fat weeds out the "potential soulmates" who you wouldn't want to be with since they wouldn't date someone due to looks and health that being said is knowing that worth your own health? fuck no take care of yourselves if your overweight strive to lose weight if possible.
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on the plus side being fat weeds out the "potential soulmates" who you wouldn't want to be with since they wouldn't date someone due to looks and health


Sure, if that means neglecting your own health and ignoring the problem, by all means. Keep endlessly searching. I mean, if you get rich, almost no woman is going to care at that point.


that being said is knowing that worth your own health? fuck no take care of yourselves if your overweight strive to lose weight if possible.


Oh, it's always possible. Unless you're a Boogie2988 who let it get out of control to the point where you have to rely on surgery to lose it, there really isn't an excuse to not lose weight.
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on the plus side being fat weeds out the "potential soulmates" who you wouldn't want to be with since they wouldn't date someone due to looks and health


Sure, if that means neglecting your own health and ignoring the problem, by all means. Keep endlessly searching. I mean, if you get rich, almost no woman is going to care at that point.


that being said is knowing that worth your own health? fuck no take care of yourselves if your overweight strive to lose weight if possible.


Oh, it's always possible. Unless you're a Boogie2988 who let it get out of control to the point where you have to rely on surgery to lose it, there really isn't an excuse to not lose weight.


If you get rich then women will only want you for your money which is just as bad as dating a women who wouldn't date you if you were fat in my books people who want something out of you or will only love you if you look attractive are not worth dating in my books.

Anyone who would date me if i were skinny but not if i were super obese to the point i was super ugly is someone i personally would not be interested in dating as it goes to show how little their care for me as a person would be.

and yeah there always is but there is always reasons people find it hard depression can make it very hard i know that for a fact im losing weight i gained (went from being super skinny to overweight due to bullying in school) depression and bullying can lead someone to resorting to eating to cope to avoid being suicidal which is solveable but there are sometimes valid reasons people put that weight on in the first place or struggle with it but with enough effort losing it is 100% possible in 99% of cases.
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Posted 5/27/17 , edited 5/27/17

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I like my women a bit on the thicc side but I do not, I repeat, I do NOT like fat chicks. What's the difference? Well thicc can still get into jeans without spilling over the edge of them, thicc still looks fairly flat from the side, thicc isn't fat but thicc definitely isn't thin either.
And this isn't a choice, that's just what starts the ignition. If it doesn't work for you there isn't a lot you can do about, love them or not. So I completely understand not finding someone attractive after putting on 65 pounds (if someone in my preference range put on 65 pounds I'd need to call the damn Norwegians). Hell I personally lost over 90 so I get super salty when people try to make excuses for their weight.
Love doesn't make you suddenly find shit attractive that usually repulses you, sorry to say.


I believe the term is rubenesque nice and curvy

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