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Posted 6/3/17 , edited 6/3/17
I'm pretty friendly, just very low-energy. I get tired easily so I often prefer to listen to music or others talking. I was never good at reading people so I just decided to try to be equally nice.
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Posted 6/3/17
I just cried at a party because I didn't feel like I fit in.

I'm normally cool around people I know though. I just have anxiety.
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Posted 6/3/17

MadLemon wrote:

I try, I may not do a good job but I try.


That's all we can do.
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21 / F
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Posted 6/3/17 , edited 6/3/17
I love socializing, it's not a problem for me at all usually. If I'm stressed and/or tired I simmer down tho, but that's like most people so ^.^
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Posted 6/3/17
I'm a fucking mess.

I can only avidly talk with people I'm close to.
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Posted 6/3/17

fzero30 wrote:

i am rather socially inept going off my experiences...


Bet my experiences are worse than yours.
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Posted 6/3/17 , edited 6/3/17

XxDarkSasuxX wrote:

I'm a fucking mess.

I can only avidly talk with people I'm close to.


Same.
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Posted 6/3/17 , edited 6/3/17
Good at faking it, not good at genuinely connecting or just chilling with people. It's incredible that I am successfully dating. My SO is the only person I can just talk to casually and honestly.

I am good at talking to strangers that I will never see again and coworkers that never get close to me. I make eye contact just fine with everyone. I can hold conversations with people fine when it's just chit chat to pass the time, God awful at talking to socialise and befriend people though.

Doesn't help that I can't stand most people and am obsessed with my own personal moral superiority over others.
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Posted 6/3/17

abahre wrote:

I just cried at a party because I didn't feel like I fit in.

I'm normally cool around people I know though. I just have anxiety.


I feel you on the anxiety.



It's a bitch.

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Posted 6/3/17 , edited 6/3/17
I used to be so nervous in social situations that all I wanted to do during parties was hide in a corner where I could be invisible. In recent years, I've been able to carry on a decent conversation with people that I've just met. Can't say that's true anymore though. I think I lost all confidence in myself. Reverting back to a nervous wreck it seems.

Maintaining eye contact is easy since I just stare at them and kind of zone out and not actually look at them.
Posted 6/4/17
If I didn't have to eat every now and then, I'd never go outside.
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Posted 6/4/17
I'm not the best conversation starter, I can keep a conversation going though. I usually ramble on about things that seem relevant to what the conversation was first about
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Posted 6/4/17
iam alright. Iam pretty good at talking and getting along with people. Iam not incredibly quiet and shy like i once was and iam not so reliant on booze like i once was.
Iam a good talker and rarely get into conflicts. But iam not particulary good at picking up women at this stage in my life. I still get embarrassed about certian things such as dancing. Iam not massive on being the centre of attention in larger groups.
But yeah i do good at starting converastions and engaing in coversation. I like playing pool against random people when iam out playing and stuff.
Shit i even used to be shy about going squad leader or driving the tank in video games like battlefield but now i squad lead like a boss (lol)..

Eh iam way better socially than i once was but also not as good as what i have been.
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23 / M / Fraxinus
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Posted 6/4/17
I can barely hold a conversation unless it's something I'm really interested in.
Keeping eye contact just feels very awkward.
I can converse passably with strangers... Well, at the bare minimum level before awkwardness creeps in.
And I am absolute shit at starting conversations. Like, fuck... how the hell am I supposed to know what someone else wants to talk about?

Fuck social interactions.
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Posted 6/4/17
I can do everything that u listed besides I'm kinda terrible at keeping eye contact cuz I think it gets awkward, heh. I mean I can do it but, won't do it for long
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