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Post Reply My SO is visiting, what should we do?
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Posted 6/5/17
I am currently in a LDR with someone, but on 7 July - 19 July, they will be visiting and staying with me. We have plans to visit the city so I can show them around, and most likely we will go to the zoo and the movies, but I'm not sure what else is a good idea to do with someone.

I have never spent time with a human being, so nothing comes to my mind, but I want to do anything and everything for us to have a good time while we are here.

Please give me some ideas.
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Posted 6/5/17
Plan you food- meaning nice café or eating outside with picnic
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I've been in a couple of LDRs before and I can tell you that, when you do get to see your SO, you shouldn't underestimate the simple things. Just being able to do normal things with them like hanging out, cuddling, binge watching anime, going to the store, etc. can mean a lot since you aren't usually able to do that with them. Do the things you might normally find enjoyable in your spare time, but together. Make it into good quality time.

I'm not sure how close you two are yet, and it's great to try to impress, but also remember that they hopefully like you for you, and that it's okay to relax and be yourself. Don't freak out too much.

If there are other fun places in the city, like amusement parks, water parks, museums, malls, and such you can try visiting those too. But dates can get expensive really fast lol.
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Posted 6/5/17
Never knew you had a significant other. Other than that, I do not know.
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Both just die. fuck couples hate you all

but once I get past my jealousy and bitterness, just watching tv and cuddling comes to mind. playing games etc. And you know. Couple stuff.

Also I hope you both blow up.
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I agree with Cherry. Simple stuff is the best,.Sometimes planning extravagant things is a bit overwhelming and becomes really stressful if things don't go according to plan. They want to visit you for well..you!

My most favorite moments with my SO is being couch potatoes and playing video games, binge watching TV or just taking my dog on a walk. When we go out to eat we like Diners rather than a crazy expensive restaurant. Just enjoying the little things in life is very nice and I feel the most memorable.
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Congratulations on ur relationship!

It really depends on what ur into.. go to the movies, have dinner, grab ice cream later. Go hammocking or hiking together, biking or rollerblading around the park. Play video games together, binge watch Netflix or CR. Lots of cuddling if ur comfortable enough! Hmm.. go to an arcade, zoo like u mentioned.. walking around downtown. There's this place called canvas and Chardonnay where I live where u basically drink wine and paint, idk if they have it at where ur located at, but maybe something similar. Sitting down drinking coffee, getting to know each other more.. ordering take out/pizza, just chilling at home...
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I'd space out your days at the zoo or movie theater with days at home. Zoos and movies can be fun, but you will get burned out if it is one big day out after another, especially if you are introverted. Idk what kind of stuff you or the SO are in to, but I'll give you some suggestions for both days out and days where you just want to stay home.

Days out (aside from the zoo and movie theater): aquarium, favorite restaurant, hiking, scenic areas in town (like if your town has a nice park or something like that), concerts, go out for ice cream, beach, bookstore (if you're both nerds), museum.

Days at home: Movies, anime, video games, have a few drinks (if you're old enough and like to drink), cards against humanity (if you have anyone other than the SO over during that time period).

Make sure that you've got everything in your house set up in a way that is good for company, so that you won't be embarrassed if they see a messy house or something like that. Like Cherry said, the most important thing is to be yourself.
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Posted 6/5/17
bang
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27 / M / Chicago,IL
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Posted 6/5/17


We need to have an LDR.
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Posted 6/5/17

MrChamploo wrote:



We need to have an LDR.


nope
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Posted 6/5/17
1 ) go aquarium

2) go museum

3 ) plan a picnic at a beach / garden

4 ) for night , select a good musical and watch indoor
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Posted 6/5/17

HateKillingCamels wrote:

Both just die. fuck couples hate you all

but once I get past my jealousy and bitterness, just watching tv and cuddling comes to mind. playing games etc. And you know. Couple stuff.

Also I hope you both blow up.


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Posted 6/5/17

Lowlights wrote:


MrChamploo wrote:



We need to have an LDR.


nope


You refusing me before it even starts..
You know how to break a mans heart M'lady..

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Posted 6/6/17 , edited 6/6/17
sacrifice children...i mean VIDEO GAMES.
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