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Post Reply How easy is it for you to tell if a girl or guy likes you in real life?
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32 / M / North Dakota
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Posted 8/6/17
When I was younger I was on par with a Shonen MC.

Now it's pretty obvious. It just so happens that the women I attract now are the ones I am forced to avoid like the plague...

...coincidentally... I've also apparently gotten a lot better at recognizing bad ideas before they strike.
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27 / M / Katy, TX
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Focus more on yourself and less on others in cases of romantic interest. The question should not be does she like me but rather do I like her... Act on your answer and hope for the best. Fight on brother.
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Posted 8/6/17
I can usually tell when a guy likes me pretty easily. They typically make more eye contact when they talk to me and drop hints, which I usually ignore.
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Posted 8/6/17
Not sure but I never react to hints as I tend to assume I'm misinterpreting. That's why I can't tell for sure unless it's made absolutely clear, applies to this and many other things.
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Posted 8/6/17 , edited 8/6/17
Well it's going to feel different for everyone. I'm really sensitive to like the vibe in the room, and with other people in general. If you feel like you you're one of those people that know that atmospheric pressure of emotions it's simple: yes they like you if you're even asking this question. That means you guys are talking often enough, and they aren't going to stop while busy at work; or in a situation where they only have a second to reply (Trying to keep this as gender neutral as possible but I gotta say this is especially true with a straight woman :b.) If you're not one of those people... idk man can't really have a personal opinion, but ask them to hang out somewhere simple so it doesn't fully sound like you're asking for a date? Like gotta make it smooth man so it's a simple bail out. But you'll know either right when you ask or right during/after the time spent

Also depends on your age group I guess and I'm kinda old I guess when I looked at that poll lol so take this opinion with a grain of salt
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Posted 8/6/17
It all depends on how much money they pay you to go away.
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Posted 8/6/17
Casually explains it all.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xa-4IAR_9Yw
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Posted 8/6/17
Just say you like them. If they accept that, then good for you. If not, move along. Unless they like to have people orbiting around them or they like to lead on people for fun, than you will be guessing until you decide to stop pursuing.
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Posted 8/6/17 , edited 8/8/17
for me its been Pretty easy..

I usually figure it out right after they strip down and jump me.

which BTW ladies.. you know it is perfectly OK to let a guy know that you like him with your WORDS, FIRST!

chicks who play all that subtle crap, never even get the time of day.

I, like 99% of men, have jobs to do and money to make and a home / business to take care of.

I DON"T have time to figure out a woman and her "signals"
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Posted 8/6/17
I'm the guy who gets told by him mom (that girl was hitting on you...)
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30 / F / St. Louis, MO
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Posted 8/6/17
I am very stupid when it comes to someone liking me. They have to be pretty open about it because I have such low self esteem I always assume most people don't like me. Usually with my ex boyfriends I have always been the one to initiate a relationship or communicate my interest. My current boyfriend has been pretty forward with liking me. It's the opposite end of the spectrum from my usual life encounters with men.
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Posted 8/6/17 , edited 8/8/17
I kinda assume we're just really good friends until all of a sudden they're asking me out :/

so no, not really good at telling
Posted 8/6/17
Not sure. It's never happened
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23 / M / strangereal
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Posted 8/6/17
I sure wouldn't know.
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26 / M / Canada
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Posted 8/6/17 , edited 8/6/17
Well for people that are good at picking up body language hints, it's pretty easy. For those that are unable to pick up verbal and non-verbal cues you could always just ask.

Whoops misread the OP

It's nearly impossible for me to tell, unless the girl confesses to me because I'm too much of a pussy to tell a girl how I feel.
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