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Post Reply How easy is it for you to tell if a girl or guy likes you in real life?
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Posted 8/7/17
I use body language and facial expressions to try and gauge interest before I talk to girls I have not meet before.

I have had reasonable success so far, but YMMV.

Pro tip: If you look at them and they smile back, that's usually a good sign...

Or your fly is undone.





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it's never happened. not as far as I can tell. told once or twice in my school days by friends of the girls, but the girls themselves did nothing and avoided me like the plague.

good way to tell is if they tell you to stop crying. if it's followed by "be a man" or hitting you, you should probably stop crying. I'm not lonely.
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I can't, ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Posted 8/7/17

fredreload wrote:

I can't, ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh


>> How did that manual thing go over?
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MysteryMiss wrote:


fredreload wrote:

I can't, ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh


>> How did that manual thing go over?


I need to beat the wait game, gonna go plan B
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by how they treat you, i feel like if they want to spend more time JUST the two of you, they are calling a lot, texting etc all the time, and just in general treat you a bit more special and exclusive then they do other people chances are they like you. of course not 100% fool proof. another thing is that this takes time, remember your building on this relationship here friendship or more it takes time to go from seeing you as someone they associate with to someone they want to be with all the time. its rare for just in the movement falling in love.
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Posted 8/7/17
Either it's really easy and very few people have ever liked me,

or it's really damn difficult and a couple people have liked me here and there.

I'm going with the former because the three people who have actually liked me, it was really really really obvious.
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Posted 8/7/17
Ok, this is simple.


When he likes you.


When she likes you.


When he hates you.



When she hates you.



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Posted 8/7/17 , edited 8/7/17

fredreload wrote:


MysteryMiss wrote:

>> How did that manual thing go over?


I need to beat the wait game, gonna go plan B


The real trick is that you don't need a manual for women, you need an automatic. It's way less needy.
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Posted 8/7/17
With men it's pretty obvious every single time. Just, like, men have no boundaries.

But with other women, I have the insight of a brick. I think I began to be able to pick up on signs after the last one, but I'm still not sure. Clearly, I have incredible ineptness for this because it's been so long since I've dated. >.<
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If you want a relationship to go farther, ask them. It is the only way you will know. Be prepared for whatever answer that you get.

Good Luck
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if they straight-out tell me, cause I'm clueless XD
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I was as dense as a log. I remember in college one girl that I liked and went out on a date with her. I called up later and her mother answered the phone. She told me that her daughter had recently broken up with her previous boy friend, but they were back together again. With other girls I got to distrust the reply :"I'll think about it" Most of the time I never heard back from them. Over the years I came to the conclusion that women expect you to read their minds and get put out when you can't interpret whatever signals they are sending.
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Posted 8/8/17
When I was younger I was more shy, had a lot guy friends we would game alot together and hangout with a bunch of other friends but was always friend zoned. I was also not the best at telling if someone liked me. I also was too shy to mention anything. As got older, I became more comfortable and straight forward. I can usually get an idea with body language, micro expressions, eye contact etc. I would rather have someone be straight forward and honest, it's easier.
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Posted 8/8/17
Woman are notorious for using guys they know that like them.

I've seen in college where some guy will buy an expensive gift for a girl that they hardly know and the girl doesn't mind taking it. Knowing that they could care less about him. Kinda sad to be honest.
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