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Posted 8/14/17 , edited 8/15/17

redokami wrote:


what do u mean in eachothers pockets all the time?


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Northeast_megalopolis
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Posted 8/15/17 , edited 8/15/17

gornotck wrote:


redokami wrote:


what do u mean in eachothers pockets all the time?


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Northeast_megalopolis


so cuz we are densly populated?
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Posted 8/15/17 , edited 8/15/17

redokami wrote:


gornotck wrote:


redokami wrote:


what do u mean in eachothers pockets all the time?


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Northeast_megalopolis


so cuz we are densly populated?


Broadly speaking, yes.

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Posted 8/15/17 , edited 8/15/17

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What did people do?


my ex told me it would be perfectly ok If the white race ceased to exist
to sum up the screech fest


why should you care what your ex think? The only thing that should cease to exist about Caucasians is the superiority/victim complex that seems to be all the rage now a days on the net.
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Posted 8/15/17 , edited 8/15/17

ran76 wrote:


redokami wrote:


mittemeyer wrote:

What did people do?


my ex told me it would be perfectly ok If the white race ceased to exist
to sum up the screech fest


why should you care what your ex think? The only thing that should cease to exist about Caucasians is the superiority/victim complex that seems to be all the rage now a days on the net.


because I don't mean to let others affect me so much,
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Avoid interracting with the bitches as much as possible. Block their asses, avoid them offline, etc... They're intent on harrassing you, and have made it entirely clear that they have absolutely no intention of acting civil. Get the hell away from that, if possible. When family treats each other like that, they really aren't family anymore. You are being ostracized, meaning they're on the road to officially "kicking you out" of the family. Better that you make the preemptive move, before it gets really, really ugly. Quite a few of my relatives have gone and are going through the same shit, such as my own mother and, to a lesser extent, myself. Vice-versa, cunts in my family tree do it to people. It can be decades before this shit will blow over, if ever.

By the way, the clickbait title and OP do not do your very serious situation any favors.

Also, don't give your ex the time of day. He's your ex. He's butthurt.
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Avoid interracting with the bitches as much as possible. Block their asses, avoid them offline, etc... They're intent on harrassing you, and have made it entirely clear that they have absolutely no intention on acting civil. Get the hell away from that, if possible. When family treats each other like that, they really aren't family anymore. You are being ostracized, meaning they're on the road to officially "kicking you out" of the family. Better that you make the preemptive move, before it gets really, really ugly. Quite a few of my relatives have gone and are going through the same shit, such as my own mother and, to a lesser extent, myself. Vice-versa, cunts in my family tree do it to people. It can be decades before this shit will blow over, if ever.

By the way, the clickbait title and OP do not do your very serious situation any favors.

Also, don't give your ex the time of day. He's your ex. He's butthurt.

my thing is, they always go back to acting like nothing happened, and everything is happy happy joy joy, and its.....ok between us? like in the sense we aint fightin

but then shit happens again... like -rolls eyes- we are GOING TO WAR WITH NK AND THEY CAN HIT PENNYSLANIA AMANDA , when all I did was comeout side barefoot with my cat inmy arms to greet mygrandma who pulled up in the car outta no where and was talkin to my mom, I mean its literally like that TRUMP trump trump out of fuckin no where and we get in a argument
they are fuckin childish and wont listen to me, ormy mom, on the phone when all of a sudden we say something after they scream and rant its I CANT HANDLE YOU -click-

and one time my grandma plugged her ears and went LA LA LA LA LA smh
its also confusing because I will tell my grandma something and she will agre with me but then behind my back to my mom she talks shit, says im racist, says im paranoid and crazy - I store food for emergency cuz it floods and hurricanes a lot here, and god forbid there is a economic recession, I don't want to be at wal mart in the ghetto and get fuckin shot here to get food, ill have my own- but yea im crazy

and about me being furry she says in sex crazed and literally kink shames me,
my aunt tells me I shouldn't be allowed to have children because im poor when she is 39 living at home and coming home drunk and high, with no job
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my thing is, they always go back to acting like nothing happened, and everything is happy happy joy joy, and its.....ok between us? like in the sense we aint fightin

but then shit happens again... like -rolls eyes- we are GOING TO WAR WITH NK AND THEY CAN HIT PENNYSLANIA AMANDA , when all I did was comeout side barefoot with my cat inmy arms to greet mygrandma who pulled up in the car outta no where and was talkin to my mom, I mean its literally like that TRUMP trump trump out of fuckin no where and we get in a argument
they are fuckin childish and wont listen to me, ormy mom, on the phone when all of a sudden we say something after they scream and rant its I CANT HANDLE YOU -click-

and one time my grandma plugged her ears and went LA LA LA LA LA smh


It's a bit of a relief that it's not quite as bad as I thought. Don't be afraid to walk from them mid-sentence, when they choose to stir the shitpot. It seems like they have no compunction agaist doing it to you, so you might as well return the favor. You're old enough to treat them as the immature jerks they sometimes want to be. If one or both of them have a legitimate mental issue, like dementia, you can afford to cut a little slack, but still walk away when it's too much.

My maternal grandpa, born and raised in Martinsburg, PA, is a White supremacist; however, his racism has been abruptly spiking with the worsening of his dementia. I've been careful to make my beliefs clear whilst holding back in consideration of his obviously failing mind.

I occasionally butt heads with family over ideological topics, and found that it's good to try and focus on shared beliefs.
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Seriously this thread is disgusting. Calm the f down and go meditate or something.
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redokami wrote:
my thing is, they always go back to acting like nothing happened, and everything is happy happy joy joy, and its.....ok between us? like in the sense we aint fightin

but then shit happens again... like -rolls eyes- we are GOING TO WAR WITH NK AND THEY CAN HIT PENNYSLANIA AMANDA , when all I did was comeout side barefoot with my cat inmy arms to greet mygrandma who pulled up in the car outta no where and was talkin to my mom, I mean its literally like that TRUMP trump trump out of fuckin no where and we get in a argument
they are fuckin childish and wont listen to me, ormy mom, on the phone when all of a sudden we say something after they scream and rant its I CANT HANDLE YOU -click-

and one time my grandma plugged her ears and went LA LA LA LA LA smh


It's a bit of a relief that it's not quite as bad as I thought. Don't be afraid to walk from them mid-sentence, when they choose to stir the shitpot. It seems like they have no compunction agaist doing it to you, so you might as well return the favor. You're old enough to treat them as the immature jerks they sometimes want to be. If one or both of them have a legitimate mental issue, like dementia, you can afford to cut a little slack, but still walk away when it's too much.

My maternal grandpa, born and raised in Martinsburg, PA, is a White supremacist; however, his racism has been abruptly spiking with the worsening of his dementia. I've been careful to make my beliefs clear whilst holding back in consideration of his obviously failing mind.

I occasionally butt heads with family over ideological topics, and found that it's good to try and focus on shared beliefs.


I try to just walk away. When im able to atleast...tho last time i did i was grabbed cornered and screamed into my face being threantened to be beat d while held in place . Over simply calling my aunt bitchy


Besides simply trying to ignore them while im with them idk what else to do. I dont feel like i can just cut them off
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Posted 8/15/17 , edited 8/15/17

redokami wrote:

I try to just walk away. When im able to atleast...tho last time i did i was grabbed cornered and screamed into my face being threantened to be beat d while held in place . Over simply calling my aunt bitchy


Besides simply trying to ignore them while im with them idk what else to do. I dont feel like i can just cut them off


You need to put your foot down, especially when threatened with physical violence. If you can't bring yourself to do it, things will remain as is, and possibly worsen. If you really want to get away from the abuse, you need to do something. "Try" won't cut it. I gave my advice; there's literally nothing else that I can do to help.
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It's easier said than done, but try taking the high road. Just don't respond to provocation and steer the topic away from politics. Sharing your opinion isn't going to help and it isn't going to make you any more or less independent from them. Try to avoid drama, like the random posting you did in other threads. It just makes things worse. But find help
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There's a bit of a revolution going on in the USA right now. What a time to be alive.
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Cardamom_Ginger wrote:


redokami wrote:

I try to just walk away. When im able to atleast...tho last time i did i was grabbed cornered and screamed into my face being threantened to be beat d while held in place . Over simply calling my aunt bitchy


Besides simply trying to ignore them while im with them idk what else to do. I dont feel like i can just cut them off


You need to put your foot down, especially when threatened with physical violence. If you can't bring yourself to do it, things will remain as is, and possibly worsen. If you really want to get away from the abuse, you need to do something. "Try" won't cut it. I gave my advice; there's literally nothing else that I can do to help.


Alright...thank you

And thank you too @mitt
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RavingDragon wrote:

There's a bit of a revolution going on in the USA right now. What a time to be alive.


For what side though
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