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A very awkward request
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Posted 1/12/18 , edited 1/13/18
I also want a girlfriend. any help please
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Posted 1/13/18 , edited 1/13/18

redasrain wrote:

As an adjective it's fine, but as a noun it's just gross. It's clinical and creates such an outgroup, it's like you're treating them as a completely different species.

"The female at the store....."
"The group, consisting of some females..."

It's like the verbal equivalent of some gross grabby dudebro being a gross grabby dudebro.

Call me "a female" and I'll come kick you in the nads.


The funny thing is, I think men do this because they generally get the idea that "women" isn't acceptable, (cultural reasons, and primarily because women tell them that,("being a woman sucks", "men have no respect", "what? is it because I'm a woman?") which they have interpreted as "oh, women is a bad word. We need to be more polite and something or other") and use the word "females" because it IS more clinical and so on. In a sense the more clinical and removed is more respectful, as in the way you don't yell out to your boss "OI! YOU, YA FOCKEN WANKER!" when you see him on the streets like you might do your friends....

Men who use "females" aren't necessarily ill intentioned, just really awkward. Most of the time men are really awkward and don't know what the opposite sex desires or needs, and they tend to learn by only being told when they're wrong...(praise or being told you got a right answer is rare among the males.)
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Posted 1/13/18 , edited 1/18/18
I think you should really focus on the happiness of yourself before you even start a relationship. After that’s fulfilled, try talking to the ladies in your classes, ie your martial arts. Just a simple “hey how are you today,” can start a conversation. Build your confidence up dude! You are still so young, you have plenty of time to find a girlfriend. I say worry about making you happy and less on worrying about being lonely.
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Posted 1/13/18 , edited 1/14/18

eracee wrote:

I also want a girlfriend. any help please


See the rest of the thread. Surprising amount of interesting stuff
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Posted 1/13/18 , edited 1/14/18
I just wanna be a househusband or marry someone rich. Who can help me?
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Posted 1/13/18 , edited 1/13/18

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I just wanna be a househusband or marry someone rich. Who can help me?


Gimme a sec, lemme check my lotto numbers.

I GOT THE MEGA BALL!!!




but that was all
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Posted 1/15/18 , edited 1/15/18
I think it's actually easier finding someone when you aren't looking so much. Maybe just focus on getting to know new people, and love might just come along.
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Posted 1/17/18 , edited 1/18/18
You won't find a girlfriend on crunchyroll. If you don't want to use a dating app, then do it the old fashioned way by going out.
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Posted 1/17/18 , edited 1/18/18

bbbbbbbbbb wrote:

You won't find a girlfriend on crunchyroll. If you don't want to use a dating app, then do it the old fashioned way by going out.


I'm working on it.
I understood this was probably going to net 0 results.
I'm actually happy at how this ended up turning out.
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Posted 1/18/18 , edited 1/18/18

Potentsaliva wrote:


HateKillingCamels wrote:


Potentsaliva wrote:

Perhaps, but a gf just might give him the S U C C worth bearing.


In which case a prostitute is way less hassle.


The joke aside I think what I said has double meaning. I think life will always suck no matter what, but that sometimes there are things that suck that are worth the effort.


life doesn't suck at all

life is pure awesome, it's just the way you think about things that have an effect on the way you perceive the world anyways

OP get out more, you're going to meet a girl who has an account on these forums more likely as opposed to meeting one at a pub, or at a music festival or finding one about in places you both have an interest in or a dating site when girls make an account to meet someone or you reckon a couple rounds of basketball and eating some food will help you find one more?

imo work on yourself, get more physical exercise spend less time on the internet trying to impress people with internet lingo and get outside more it seems like that would do you good instead of explaining how you would like a girlfriend if you want a girlfriend then go and get one.

Just do it.


Challenged on behalf of Nike now boi
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Posted 1/18/18 , edited 1/19/18
being honest , and confident in yourself can take you a long way. i know you said your shy but start small and try to break out that shell go to the mall and start a conversation up with a random person. building confidence is key to alot. just got to work on it and always be a gentle man. tell a woman shes beautiful but dont just tell her make her believe it. make her feel like shes the only woman in the world. open doors for her, pull her chair out. all in all my friend confidence and be a gentle man.
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Go out and start making your self happy. Go find hobbies and do something new. Meet new people to start talking to girls. That will make things easier for you, if you are not good at striking up conversations.
Love is easier to find when you aren't looking for it. For a personal example, this Asian girl asked for my number after I had my first boxing match.
Also you're 22. I don't want to rude, but are you sure you just don't want to get laid instead?
Reconsider your options, and what you really want. Life is short, go out and do shit. A girl won't magically make you happy, but it a relationship can make you more happy if you already are. If you are shitty,you will be a shitty relationship that feels like shits.
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Posted 1/19/18 , edited 1/19/18

MelvinWin wrote:

Also you're 22. I don't want to rude, but are you sure you just don't want to get laid instead?


Positive on that part
Working on the rest
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Posted 1/19/18 , edited 1/19/18

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MelvinWin wrote:

Also you're 22. I don't want to rude, but are you sure you just don't want to get laid instead?


Positive on that part
Working on the rest


Awesome. Being funny, also helps btw.
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