Boys Over Flower Jang Ja-yeon found dead!
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i read about it this morning..
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Anyone want to teach me korean? xD
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TheBored wrote: CptJackSwallows wrote: Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide TheBored wrote: CptJackSwallows wrote: TheBored wrote: Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: I agree :D May you rest in hell or burn in hell for all i care >_> its wrong to kill herself even if she are suffering from depression i understand that its hard but killing herself.. she has no right to kill her soul Objection!!! who says that she can't kill herself?? Its her own body, property everything, so why can't she kill herself?? so your point about ''she haves no right to kill her soul '' ish invalid to wish her to go to hell o.O >_> she shouldn't kill herself because people who love her will miss her even if it is her body she didn't choose or make it so she has no right to do anything to it well i burn in hell for all i care for... not go to hell most religions say that whoever kills their selves are to go to hell and thats what I'm going along with stating a opinion from religions, i didn't say to go to hell o.o I could care less about someone who knows that other people need them and want them to live and just abandon them and leave the troubles behind even you said that, i assume you're atheist ?? so don't talk about hell if you don't believe it, or you're just someone who's just following other people without your own opinion -_- besides you didn't said ''go to hell'' no you said ''May you rest in Hell'' and isn't that very similar to each other?? some people are very and very tired from living in depression, and can't do anything about it , I think she've tried many things to suppress it, but in the end she still killed her self, It's not like that she really wanted to kill her self, as a human being everyone makes rash and dumb decisions. I'm pretty sure that she was scared when she wanted to suicide even she haves ''loved'' ones why she didn't ask them for help?? I'm sure that they would help her. i assume that she didn't really have ''loved ones'' -_- ok first of im not atheist o.o and whats wrong with not using my opinion and the answer to your question>> even she haves ''loved'' ones why she didn't ask them for help?? << thats her problem she probably didn't she just called her sister when she couldn't suppress it anymore when she couldn't help her self trust me i know that pretty much everyone can get so depressed enough to think about suicide i myself reached that point.. but i stopped myself but thats the difference... she should've at least gone to a therapist or done SOMETHING about it and ofc she was scared when she was committing suicide... my aunt's housekeeper recently committed suicide when she was really going to die... she tried to save herself but she couldn't because she hung her self it was such a shock to find her and thats why i strongly object to suicide and some of my friends have committed suicide or tried to, and those who survived it, r now over their unhappiness... and depression Do you know that drug therapy does not effect everybody. Psychiartry is unable to help everyone. O.O Really? O.O i didn't know hmm... but i think she should've done something anything to just avoid killing herself cuz its just wrong and sad >_> she should just eat food which energizes her thats what i got my friend doing cuz she thought going to a therapist was shameful, like chocolates though she did gain a bit of weight now (since shes eating chocolate like crazy) shes doing great and she stopped eating them and has not gone back to being depressed, also socializing is helpful and saying whatever is on your mind and not suppressing it helps a great deal although what i mentioned might be kind of small but it does the trick the smallest things are helpful i know but that is completely a different case here in her case thats different she actually communicated with her sister and told her how she felt but she told her too late its not uncurable She told her sister that she wanted to die. If she was not highly depressed, she would have asked for help. Just because you are depressed does not mean you forget about responsibility. In some cases it is uncurable and suicide is the only option for said people. |
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TheBored wrote: Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: I agree :D May you rest in hell or burn in hell for all i care >_> its wrong to kill herself even if she are suffering from depression i understand that its hard but killing herself.. she has no right to kill her soul Objection!!! who says that she can't kill herself?? Its her own body, property everything, so why can't she kill herself?? so your point about ''she haves no right to kill her soul '' ish invalid to wish her to go to hell o.O >_> she shouldn't kill herself because people who love her will miss her even if it is her body she didn't choose or make it so she has no right to do anything to it well i burn in hell for all i care for... not go to hell most religions say that whoever kills their selves are to go to hell and thats what I'm going along with stating a opinion from religions, i didn't say to go to hell o.o I could care less about someone who knows that other people need them and want them to live and just abandon them and leave the troubles behind even you said that, i assume you're atheist ?? so don't talk about hell if you don't believe it, or you're just someone who's just following other people without your own opinion -_- besides you didn't said ''go to hell'' no you said ''May you rest in Hell'' and isn't that very similar to each other?? some people are very and very tired from living in depression, and can't do anything about it , I think she've tried many things to suppress it, but in the end she still killed her self, It's not like that she really wanted to kill her self, as a human being everyone makes rash and dumb decisions. I'm pretty sure that she was scared when she wanted to suicide even she haves ''loved'' ones why she didn't ask them for help?? I'm sure that they would help her. i assume that she didn't really have ''loved ones'' -_- ok first of im not atheist o.o and whats wrong with not using my opinion and the answer to your question>> even she haves ''loved'' ones why she didn't ask them for help?? << thats her problem she probably didn't she just called her sister when she couldn't suppress it anymore when she couldn't help her self trust me i know that pretty much everyone can get so depressed enough to think about suicide i myself reached that point.. but i stopped myself but thats the difference... she should've at least gone to a therapist or done SOMETHING about it and ofc she was scared when she was committing suicide... my aunt's housekeeper recently committed suicide when she was really going to die... she tried to save herself but she couldn't because she hung her self it was such a shock to find her and thats why i strongly object to suicide and some of my friends have committed suicide or tried to, and those who survived it, r now over their unhappiness... and depression about that red stuff, care to rephrase it, but in a way so child can understand it ?? Sorry i wasn't clear enough.. u said even if she has loved ones y didnt she ask them for help right? some people are not very open about the way they feel they suppress what is bothering them and thats how they get depression in the first place and she suppressed it all until she couldnt do so anymore i hope it was clearer ohh thanks maybe she was a girl who didn't like to talk about ''serious'' business. but i pity her sister though |
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Fujiwara10 wrote: TheBored wrote: I agree :D May you rest in hell or burn in hell for all i care >_> its wrong to kill herself even if she are suffering from depression i understand that its hard but killing herself.. she has no right to kill her soul ^ What you have said here has made a big conflict because you are contradicting on what you have believed or "agreed" on. No o.o i still think that its wrong to kill herself >_> even if she is depressed i mean i was saying i know that its difficult but its not a reason to kill her self i don't think i wrote that its ok to kill herself o.o but they think im evil cuz i said that burn in hell and some think that its her body her problem not mine thats all there is to it but anyhow im replying one last time to them cuz i need to go >_> but i can keep going hours ![]() |
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Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: I agree :D May you rest in hell or burn in hell for all i care >_> its wrong to kill herself even if she are suffering from depression i understand that its hard but killing herself.. she has no right to kill her soul Objection!!! who says that she can't kill herself?? Its her own body, property everything, so why can't she kill herself?? so your point about ''she haves no right to kill her soul '' ish invalid to wish her to go to hell o.O >_> she shouldn't kill herself because people who love her will miss her even if it is her body she didn't choose or make it so she has no right to do anything to it well i burn in hell for all i care for... not go to hell most religions say that whoever kills their selves are to go to hell and thats what I'm going along with stating a opinion from religions, i didn't say to go to hell o.o I could care less about someone who knows that other people need them and want them to live and just abandon them and leave the troubles behind even you said that, i assume you're atheist ?? so don't talk about hell if you don't believe it, or you're just someone who's just following other people without your own opinion -_- besides you didn't said ''go to hell'' no you said ''May you rest in Hell'' and isn't that very similar to each other?? some people are very and very tired from living in depression, and can't do anything about it , I think she've tried many things to suppress it, but in the end she still killed her self, It's not like that she really wanted to kill her self, as a human being everyone makes rash and dumb decisions. I'm pretty sure that she was scared when she wanted to suicide even she haves ''loved'' ones why she didn't ask them for help?? I'm sure that they would help her. i assume that she didn't really have ''loved ones'' -_- ok first of im not atheist o.o and whats wrong with not using my opinion and the answer to your question>> even she haves ''loved'' ones why she didn't ask them for help?? << thats her problem she probably didn't she just called her sister when she couldn't suppress it anymore when she couldn't help her self trust me i know that pretty much everyone can get so depressed enough to think about suicide i myself reached that point.. but i stopped myself but thats the difference... she should've at least gone to a therapist or done SOMETHING about it and ofc she was scared when she was committing suicide... my aunt's housekeeper recently committed suicide when she was really going to die... she tried to save herself but she couldn't because she hung her self it was such a shock to find her and thats why i strongly object to suicide and some of my friends have committed suicide or tried to, and those who survived it, r now over their unhappiness... and depression about that red stuff, care to rephrase it, but in a way so child can understand it ?? Sorry i wasn't clear enough.. u said even if she has loved ones y didnt she ask them for help right? some people are not very open about the way they feel they suppress what is bothering them and thats how they get depression in the first place and she suppressed it all until she couldnt do so anymore i hope it was clearer ohh thanks maybe she was a girl who didn't like to talk about ''serious'' business. but i pity her sister though yeah that was probably the case o.o but she should have been more open and i REALLY pity her sister @[email protected] it really sucks to see someone who had committed suicide in front of u dead |
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CptJackSwallows wrote: TheBored wrote: CptJackSwallows wrote: Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide TheBored wrote: CptJackSwallows wrote: TheBored wrote: Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: I agree :D May you rest in hell or burn in hell for all i care >_> its wrong to kill herself even if she are suffering from depression i understand that its hard but killing herself.. she has no right to kill her soul Objection!!! who says that she can't kill herself?? Its her own body, property everything, so why can't she kill herself?? so your point about ''she haves no right to kill her soul '' ish invalid to wish her to go to hell o.O >_> she shouldn't kill herself because people who love her will miss her even if it is her body she didn't choose or make it so she has no right to do anything to it well i burn in hell for all i care for... not go to hell most religions say that whoever kills their selves are to go to hell and thats what I'm going along with stating a opinion from religions, i didn't say to go to hell o.o I could care less about someone who knows that other people need them and want them to live and just abandon them and leave the troubles behind even you said that, i assume you're atheist ?? so don't talk about hell if you don't believe it, or you're just someone who's just following other people without your own opinion -_- besides you didn't said ''go to hell'' no you said ''May you rest in Hell'' and isn't that very similar to each other?? some people are very and very tired from living in depression, and can't do anything about it , I think she've tried many things to suppress it, but in the end she still killed her self, It's not like that she really wanted to kill her self, as a human being everyone makes rash and dumb decisions. I'm pretty sure that she was scared when she wanted to suicide even she haves ''loved'' ones why she didn't ask them for help?? I'm sure that they would help her. i assume that she didn't really have ''loved ones'' -_- ok first of im not atheist o.o and whats wrong with not using my opinion and the answer to your question>> even she haves ''loved'' ones why she didn't ask them for help?? << thats her problem she probably didn't she just called her sister when she couldn't suppress it anymore when she couldn't help her self trust me i know that pretty much everyone can get so depressed enough to think about suicide i myself reached that point.. but i stopped myself but thats the difference... she should've at least gone to a therapist or done SOMETHING about it and ofc she was scared when she was committing suicide... my aunt's housekeeper recently committed suicide when she was really going to die... she tried to save herself but she couldn't because she hung her self it was such a shock to find her and thats why i strongly object to suicide and some of my friends have committed suicide or tried to, and those who survived it, r now over their unhappiness... and depression Do you know that drug therapy does not effect everybody. Psychiartry is unable to help everyone. O.O Really? O.O i didn't know hmm... but i think she should've done something anything to just avoid killing herself cuz its just wrong and sad >_> she should just eat food which energizes her thats what i got my friend doing cuz she thought going to a therapist was shameful, like chocolates though she did gain a bit of weight now (since shes eating chocolate like crazy) shes doing great and she stopped eating them and has not gone back to being depressed, also socializing is helpful and saying whatever is on your mind and not suppressing it helps a great deal although what i mentioned might be kind of small but it does the trick the smallest things are helpful i know but that is completely a different case here in her case thats different she actually communicated with her sister and told her how she felt but she told her too late its not uncurable She told her sister that she wanted to die. If she was not highly depressed, she would have asked for help. Just because you are depressed does not mean you forget about responsibility. In some cases it is uncurable and suicide is the only option for said people. well clearly ur kicking my ass but thats for highly troubled people o.o i bet there was something more to it than her parents death |
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TheBored wrote: Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: I agree :D May you rest in hell or burn in hell for all i care >_> its wrong to kill herself even if she are suffering from depression i understand that its hard but killing herself.. she has no right to kill her soul Objection!!! who says that she can't kill herself?? Its her own body, property everything, so why can't she kill herself?? so your point about ''she haves no right to kill her soul '' ish invalid to wish her to go to hell o.O >_> she shouldn't kill herself because people who love her will miss her even if it is her body she didn't choose or make it so she has no right to do anything to it well i burn in hell for all i care for... not go to hell most religions say that whoever kills their selves are to go to hell and thats what I'm going along with stating a opinion from religions, i didn't say to go to hell o.o I could care less about someone who knows that other people need them and want them to live and just abandon them and leave the troubles behind even you said that, i assume you're atheist ?? so don't talk about hell if you don't believe it, or you're just someone who's just following other people without your own opinion -_- besides you didn't said ''go to hell'' no you said ''May you rest in Hell'' and isn't that very similar to each other?? some people are very and very tired from living in depression, and can't do anything about it , I think she've tried many things to suppress it, but in the end she still killed her self, It's not like that she really wanted to kill her self, as a human being everyone makes rash and dumb decisions. I'm pretty sure that she was scared when she wanted to suicide even she haves ''loved'' ones why she didn't ask them for help?? I'm sure that they would help her. i assume that she didn't really have ''loved ones'' -_- ok first of im not atheist o.o and whats wrong with not using my opinion and the answer to your question>> even she haves ''loved'' ones why she didn't ask them for help?? << thats her problem she probably didn't she just called her sister when she couldn't suppress it anymore when she couldn't help her self trust me i know that pretty much everyone can get so depressed enough to think about suicide i myself reached that point.. but i stopped myself but thats the difference... she should've at least gone to a therapist or done SOMETHING about it and ofc she was scared when she was committing suicide... my aunt's housekeeper recently committed suicide when she was really going to die... she tried to save herself but she couldn't because she hung her self it was such a shock to find her and thats why i strongly object to suicide and some of my friends have committed suicide or tried to, and those who survived it, r now over their unhappiness... and depression about that red stuff, care to rephrase it, but in a way so child can understand it ?? Sorry i wasn't clear enough.. u said even if she has loved ones y didnt she ask them for help right? some people are not very open about the way they feel they suppress what is bothering them and thats how they get depression in the first place and she suppressed it all until she couldnt do so anymore i hope it was clearer ohh thanks maybe she was a girl who didn't like to talk about ''serious'' business. but i pity her sister though yeah that was probably the case o.o but she should have been more open and i REALLY pity her sister @[email protected] it really sucks to see someone who had committed suicide in front of u dead like i said maybe she was a girl who didn't like to talk about ''serious business'' D= |
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TheBored wrote: Fujiwara10 wrote: TheBored wrote: I agree :D May you rest in hell or burn in hell for all i care >_> its wrong to kill herself even if she are suffering from depression i understand that its hard but killing herself.. she has no right to kill her soul ^ What you have said here has made a big conflict because you are contradicting on what you have believed or "agreed" on. No o.o i still think that its wrong to kill herself >_> even if she is depressed i mean i was saying i know that its difficult but its not a reason to kill her self i don't think i wrote that its ok to kill herself o.o but they think im evil cuz i said that burn in hell and some think that its her body her problem not mine thats all there is to it but anyhow im replying one last time to them cuz i need to go >_> but i can keep going hours :D She has the right to kill herself because it's her life, and if she has lived in true depression she has the right to control her own life. Yeah I'm really confused now, but I dunno, when you said that first statement I was pretty ticked off, and I see why people counter attacked your statement. |
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TheBored wrote: CptJackSwallows wrote: TheBored wrote: CptJackSwallows wrote: Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide TheBored wrote: CptJackSwallows wrote: TheBored wrote: Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: Baka-Master wrote: TheBored wrote: I agree :D May you rest in hell or burn in hell for all i care >_> its wrong to kill herself even if she are suffering from depression i understand that its hard but killing herself.. she has no right to kill her soul Objection!!! who says that she can't kill herself?? Its her own body, property everything, so why can't she kill herself?? so your point about ''she haves no right to kill her soul '' ish invalid to wish her to go to hell o.O >_> she shouldn't kill herself because people who love her will miss her even if it is her body she didn't choose or make it so she has no right to do anything to it well i burn in hell for all i care for... not go to hell most religions say that whoever kills their selves are to go to hell and thats what I'm going along with stating a opinion from religions, i didn't say to go to hell o.o I could care less about someone who knows that other people need them and want them to live and just abandon them and leave the troubles behind even you said that, i assume you're atheist ?? so don't talk about hell if you don't believe it, or you're just someone who's just following other people without your own opinion -_- besides you didn't said ''go to hell'' no you said ''May you rest in Hell'' and isn't that very similar to each other?? some people are very and very tired from living in depression, and can't do anything about it , I think she've tried many things to suppress it, but in the end she still killed her self, It's not like that she really wanted to kill her self, as a human being everyone makes rash and dumb decisions. I'm pretty sure that she was scared when she wanted to suicide even she haves ''loved'' ones why she didn't ask them for help?? I'm sure that they would help her. i assume that she didn't really have ''loved ones'' -_- ok first of im not atheist o.o and whats wrong with not using my opinion and the answer to your question>> even she haves ''loved'' ones why she didn't ask them for help?? << thats her problem she probably didn't she just called her sister when she couldn't suppress it anymore when she couldn't help her self trust me i know that pretty much everyone can get so depressed enough to think about suicide i myself reached that point.. but i stopped myself but thats the difference... she should've at least gone to a therapist or done SOMETHING about it and ofc she was scared when she was committing suicide... my aunt's housekeeper recently committed suicide when she was really going to die... she tried to save herself but she couldn't because she hung her self it was such a shock to find her and thats why i strongly object to suicide and some of my friends have committed suicide or tried to, and those who survived it, r now over their unhappiness... and depression Do you know that drug therapy does not effect everybody. Psychiartry is unable to help everyone. O.O Really? O.O i didn't know hmm... but i think she should've done something anything to just avoid killing herself cuz its just wrong and sad >_> she should just eat food which energizes her thats what i got my friend doing cuz she thought going to a therapist was shameful, like chocolates though she did gain a bit of weight now (since shes eating chocolate like crazy) shes doing great and she stopped eating them and has not gone back to being depressed, also socializing is helpful and saying whatever is on your mind and not suppressing it helps a great deal although what i mentioned might be kind of small but it does the trick the smallest things are helpful i know but that is completely a different case here in her case thats different she actually communicated with her sister and told her how she felt but she told her too late its not uncurable She told her sister that she wanted to die. If she was not highly depressed, she would have asked for help. Just because you are depressed does not mean you forget about responsibility. In some cases it is uncurable and suicide is the only option for said people. well clearly ur kicking my ass but thats for highly troubled people o.o i bet there was something more to it than her parents death Well the stress of fame? having very little privacy. We forget how much shit famous people go through. Everything you do is continually judged..you have to make sure you do not screw up etc parents death could just be one of the factors. |
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CptJackSwallows wrote: ElPapier wrote: CptJackSwallows wrote: ElPapier wrote: If your parents would die by aging, would you kill yourself? it was a car accident according to OP's post. Everyone is effected by things differently. Depression is a vastly over used term atm because most of the people who say they are depressed just feel lsightly down. It doesn't matter how they died. Death is death. I agree that everyone is effected by it differently, but in this situation I can't change my opinion, that the girl did extremely dumb thing. Not only dumb, but also selfish, extremely selfish. Don't forget that there's still her sister which now has lost not only the parents but also the sister. The death of one sister can lead to another suicide, that's the point. Maybe you phrased your original statement a bit wrong then. Not everyone is so detached to death as you appear to be. It may be selfish but it is her life and her choice. The original statement was just a trigger. I wanted to provoke a bigger discussion. Still, she should think about her sister first. Death of sister, 10 years after their parents car accident, won't help her. |
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ElPapier wrote: CptJackSwallows wrote: ElPapier wrote: CptJackSwallows wrote: ElPapier wrote: If your parents would die by aging, would you kill yourself? it was a car accident according to OP's post. Everyone is effected by things differently. Depression is a vastly over used term atm because most of the people who say they are depressed just feel lsightly down. It doesn't matter how they died. Death is death. I agree that everyone is effected by it differently, but in this situation I can't change my opinion, that the girl did extremely dumb thing. Not only dumb, but also selfish, extremely selfish. Don't forget that there's still her sister which now has lost not only the parents but also the sister. The death of one sister can lead to another suicide, that's the point. Maybe you phrased your original statement a bit wrong then. Not everyone is so detached to death as you appear to be. It may be selfish but it is her life and her choice. The original statement was just a trigger. I wanted to provoke a bigger discussion. Still, she should think about her sister first. Death of sister, 10 years after their parents car accident, won't help her. Why should she live for her sister? Would that not make her sister guilty because she is forcing her sister to live when she does not and do things she does not wan to just for her,. |
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Jang Ja Yun has committed suicide http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-474844/jang-ja-yun-has-committed-suicide/ |
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CptJackSwallows wrote: Why should she live for her sister? Would that not make her sister guilty because she is forcing her sister to live when she does not and do things she does not wan to just for her,. This will just lead to a bigger discussion about morality. By the way, it sounds extremely interesting- being guilty for forcing your own sibling to be alive. Would you let your sister/brother, who you really love, kill herself/himself? |
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