Post Reply Friends With Benefits
Posted 6/29/09 , edited 6/30/09
Friends with benefits is an agreement between two people who are both friends and physically attracted to one another to have a sexual relationship. Neither party is considered committed to the other, and both can start dating someone else at any time with no prior warning. A friends with benefits arrangement is not considered dating, a relationship, or even casual dating by most people who use the term. what do you think, is it good or bad? or would you agree... have that kind of ¨friendship¨. ..?
Posted 6/30/09 , edited 6/30/09
uhh meji that is hard one ha... friends with benefits is really sensitive subject becose it never stays on that friendship level no matter how much you time one of you will start to feel need for more while other will see it as just sex ... hm... think you better dont start that kind of relationship...for your own sake... think its better to wait till you find someone that that kind of intimacy will be more then just pleasure dont rush things up, ok
take care my dear ... looking forward to that poll subject xD
Posted 7/10/09 , edited 7/10/09
It can work. If you both agree to it and you're both comfortable than yeah, I think it's a good idea. Although I'm attracted my closest friend, she knows I am, and I always flirt with her and... well, she's either bi curious or bi-sexual but more attracted to guys but I have no idea if she's curious about me xD. I always tease her and the idea of being 'friends with benefits' with her is just '>:D awesome~!' But meh... nothings happened, just yet >:3

On the whole, friends with benefits is fine in my eyes, although it's not right for everyone as I know there are some people that would prefer to wait for the right one. (Y)

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Posted 7/20/09 , edited 7/20/09
it depends on the two people in question. from my experiences, they wouldnt stay 'friends with benefits' for long, they'd either end up in a relationship or it could end messy. although i guess it could work, if you werent very good friends, but then again it could become more or ur relationship just becomes about the sex. which isnt always a bad thing
Posted 2/3/10 , edited 2/3/10
i think its bad
Posted 2/6/10 , edited 2/6/10
I don't think it's that bad. But I don't think it will last either. I mean, more likely one of them falls in love with the other and they may damage their friendship or pass on to the next level: lovers. So this is a two - sided problem.
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27 / F / Canada
Posted 3/30/10 , edited 3/30/10
bad bad vrry bad
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Posted 2/1/11 , edited 2/1/11
I think its ok to have friends with benefits
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Posted 2/8/11 , edited 2/9/11
that is bad really bad, what happens if the person who starts dating someone andthe person he or she is dating finds out about it, they wont trust that person
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27 / F / Central Europe
Posted 7/21/11 , edited 7/21/11
I have one so obviously i find it ok - or more like great. We are attracted to each other but he's not looking for a girlfriend and i don't want him as my boyfriend. I luv wild guys like him and if i tamed him it wouldn't be so exciting.
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Posted 6/15/12 , edited 6/16/12
I know some people who are friends with benefits. Some are weird around each other after and some act like nothing is going on between them and they still do it. So I guess it's about who you're doing it with?
Posted 1/23/14 , edited 1/24/14
I think friends with benefits are ok but as soon as one of the friends start to date they should stop cuz then it would be considered cheating. From my experience i had a friend with benefits but she started getting too attached so we had to stop
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