Give up or Keep going?
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Posted 1/23/10 , edited 1/24/10
Me and my boyfriend just broke up a week ago...
but then.. i still love him. we keep glancing at each other in class out of habit and all that stuff.
but the thing is. i can't tell if he's going to try to get over me. he doesn't talk to me anymore.

should i give up on him as well and possibly miss the chance that he may just want me back?
or like.. keep going.. and make a fool of myself trying to get him back when he possibly doesn't want me back?

love is downright complicated.
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Posted 1/23/10 , edited 1/24/10
Well, first of all, it's only been a week, so the first step is giving it time.

Anyway, if he's not even talking to you, he's probably trying to get over you, yeah. But that doesn't mean he will. I swear that if you be patient, it's all going to work out for the best.

In the meantime, do your best not to dwell on it. It'll only make things worse. Take it from someone who dwells on a daily basis.

Good luck to you!
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Posted 1/23/10 , edited 1/24/10
Why did you guys break up in the first place? If you don't mind me asking, I think putting it in context can make the decision easier because if he cheated on you I would not tell you to get back with him.

UMMMM but if I had to just give general advice I would say to try and move on. It is easier in the long run and if he ends up getting over you while you are still in love with him it is just going to hurt you more and he will start to feel weird about you.
Posted 1/24/10 , edited 1/24/10
Please use the personal advice thread
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