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Having More Male Friends or Having More Female Friends?

Posted 9/1/15 , edited 9/1/15
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I've made one girlfriend since then.
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I have more male friends. I used to have only female friends really, but they had a lot more friends than I did at the time. I was just there until they moved on with their lives. After that I tried to make friends with other females, but they tried to use me in most cases to get to some guy or to get something out of me. One of them pretended to be my friend for months before I denied her the thing she apparently was using me for. She then said some really nasty shit in outrage of it...we'll sum it up as a text wall of "bitch, whore and a spoiled brat". I was really upset about that one. She ended up apologizing to me over a year later after admitting she was too cowardly to have done it sooner. I accepted her apology, but we wouldn't be friends again.

I haven't had much luck with females.

The male friends I met online helped pick me up and put me back on my feet. They've been good to me. I couldn't ask for better. Except one of them is a dick and constantly gets on my nerves, I got a short fuse with him and he knows it.

I have made 1-2 female friends. One of them I don't really trust but she still wants to be my friend despite hurting me often so we're still trying to be friendly at least, but there's certainly a wall now I can't help.

The other is a really awesome girlfriend I met and she's really cool, we started out by meeting on league and I still try and text her and chat on facebook. I miss her since her net went in the shit can. It was nice to have someone to have girl talk with and I'm missing that now. I was really getting used to it. I'm just hoping she's not another one that will just kinda...move on I guess.



I don't really have a preference, but in all honestly I'd love to have both. There's just some things that only women understand and talk about. It's just different. I need a bit of both, imo.
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anzn wrote: I've made one girlfriend since then.
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not for long



It's just different. I need a bit of both, imo.
yeah ;P

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not for long


Be nice. Ain't the place for it. Everyone could use friends.

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anzn wrote:

I would want more female friends. I'm really lacking them.
To stay in touch with the feminine part of myself (lmao idk how to describe it) I feel I should really get more female friends.

I used to have a lot of female friends, but it's not really an option for me these days.

My wife would turn yandere. Again.



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Is both an option?
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anzn wrote:

I would want more female friends. I'm really lacking them.
To stay in touch with the feminine part of myself (lmao idk how to describe it) I feel I should really get more female friends.

I used to have a lot of female friends, but it's not really an option for me these days.

My wife would turn yandere. Again.




This is so true if your married your going to have friends that are couples not to many just female friends not an option a lot of times I mean who wants there wife having cocktails after works with just dudes not happening either way in my humble opinion
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I inadvertently have more male friends. I think it's because I connect most with people through gaming. Not to say that woman can't game, but we all know there is an obvious imbalance (please keep your feminist wiles at bay, ladies) in gender there .
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scoobydew wrote:


Dariamus wrote:


anzn wrote:

I would want more female friends. I'm really lacking them.
To stay in touch with the feminine part of myself (lmao idk how to describe it) I feel I should really get more female friends.

I used to have a lot of female friends, but it's not really an option for me these days.

My wife would turn yandere. Again.




This is so true if your married your going to have friends that are couples not to many just female friends not an option a lot of times I mean who wants there wife having cocktails after works with just dudes not happening either way in my humble opinion

I agree.

We had a rough period right after we started dating where a few childhood friendships were broken up. No issues since.

I met my wife through several of her female friends. She got very jealous of them after we started dating. It did not help that she knew, before we started dating, that I had previously had feelings for two of them. One of them spent several months living with me, platonically, after I helped her leave her husband.

Posted 9/1/15 , edited 9/1/15
I have one friend who is a girl. Rest are guys.
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PrinceJudar wrote: Be nice. Ain't the place for it. Everyone could use friends.
Could not help releasing the alucard restrictions.
but atleast progress!
one moar to go!
(of having another girlfriend for Anzn)

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anzn wrote: I've made one girlfriend since then.
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not for long



It's just different. I need a bit of both, imo.
yeah ;P


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In real life, I have more guy friends than girls probably because in my previous school, 70% of the students are guys they are hella fun and probably the best times of my life, until I changed school full of drama queens, but i had some girl friends who arent attention whore and very few guy friends. In internet, I prefer to have girl friends but sadly my girl friends in crunchyroll are inactive so I got none >: I also grew up playing with my guy cousins and not girly toys so probably got influenced since.
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jhanna_12 wrote:

In real life, I have more guy friends than girls probably because in my previous school, 70% of the students are guys they are hella fun and probably the best times of my life, until I changed school full of drama queens, but i had some girl friends who arent attention whore and very few guy friends. In internet, I prefer to have girl friends but sadly my girl friends in crunchyroll are inactive so I got none >: I also grew up playing with my guy cousins and not girly toys so probably got influenced since.

You'll be fine.

Lots of guys like tomboys

Posted 9/1/15 , edited 9/1/15
Online I usually have more male friends then I do female friends. While in real life I usually have more female friends. I do wish I had more female friends online though but in general as long as I have friends that's all that matters lol.
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