First  Prev  1  2  3  Next  Last
Are you one of those people who don't have any goals or aspirations?
32092 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
21 / M / Bundaberg, Queens...
Offline
Posted 7/3/17 , edited 7/3/17
Goals immortality or something to avoid death as long as possible and living in comfort.
12748 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
M / Australia
Offline
Posted 7/3/17 , edited 7/3/17

Sogno- wrote:



27 isn't what i call young lololol but to each his own, i always say you're only as old as you feel


I started feeling a little old once i got past 25-26 i reckon. Shit def changes after that. The way girls look at you, physically/fitness, some things got less fun, hang overs get worse, etc
Iam 36 and i still often get called young. I mean i get called old as well but when people call me young at 36... I really dont feel young.
Mentally i do in some ways but physically hell no. I mean iam still young at heart and with my hobbies but i also am a grumpy old man already in some ways lol and physically i mean, shit i can only imagine how i'd feel at 60 if i feel like this already.
Cant imangine working until 70. Or even living that long.

But 27 aint too bad. But 30 is the bad number for women to cross is it not? so you've got a few years left to be sought after lol.

But yeah if you dont settle and have kids n be paying off a house soon...


thatgirl202 wrote:

So, are you one of those people who do not have any goals, dreams, or aspirations in your life? You kind of have nothing going for you at the moment or at all.

Yes


What do you think?

that I am pathetic.

Then again, is it my fault? I have no talents whatsoever, like I'm not good at anything. Some people compensate with their looks or brains or even good humor but I lack all that lmao I'm 100% serious here, I have nothing good on me and if I die tomorrow I think I would be making this world a favor.

I always have to work hard to do something but I never reach that wow place, it is always the average place, the mediocre one.

I feel mad, like I want to be mad at someone because of this.


That's fucked man. iam sure you must have something that you're good at and something good about you? At least some good traits.
Cant say that i know what that's like. But i do have and/or have had some weaknesses and flaws. As do we all, well most of us do.
Not sure if a lack of confidence is something that holds you back? i used to be like that badly a long time ago and it really is shit being like that.





47839 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
29 / F / SC
Offline
Posted 7/7/17 , edited 7/7/17

thatgirl202 wrote:

So, are you one of those people who do not have any goals, dreams, or aspirations in your life? You kind of have nothing going for you at the moment or at all.

Yes


What do you think?

that I am pathetic.

Then again, is it my fault? I have no talents whatsoever, like I'm not good at anything. Some people compensate with their looks or brains or even good humor but I lack all that lmao I'm 100% serious here, I have nothing good on me and if I die tomorrow I think I would be making this world a favor.

I always have to work hard to do something but I never reach that wow place, it is always the average place, the mediocre one.

I feel mad, like I want to be mad at someone because of this.


i feel ya girl

i always think about that coldplay lyric, "when you try your best but you don't succeed.."
9736 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
18 / F / London, England
Offline
Posted 7/7/17 , edited 7/7/17
I did, till someone shattered them and destroyed myself confidence
4138 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
37 / M
Offline
Posted 7/7/17 , edited 7/7/17
All I have a desire for is video games. And sometimes not even that. So pretty much.
29364 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
29 / F / Oklahoma
Offline
Posted 7/7/17 , edited 7/7/17
For a couple of years I had no goals and aspirations aside from getting together with the person I loved. Now I'm back to having goals and aspirations for music, but I'm not sure how well I can go for them anymore in my state, so... Always depressing for me.
36101 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
27 / M / San Diego, CA
Offline
Posted 7/7/17 , edited 7/7/17

Flying_Sea_Turtle wrote:

I don't think the Coast Guard and Naval would be too happy seeing a guy in a kayak 25 miles off San Diego because he got the sudden urge to paddle because the weather and ocean looked nice.

My dreams died, but the urges to do stupid shit still remains. Not good for my age.


If you ever need some one to have your back I'm always down for doing stupid things. Just holler lol.

Dreams or goals huh? I've only got one I've been chasing which all my friends tell me is a dumb or stupid reason for doing what I do. So I've been strength/weight training the last 6-7 years to the point I've thrown my back out of couple of times to recreate a move/position I saw in a porno once and decided I must do that also lol. I've always wanted to completely lift a woman above my head or up to my shoulders and go down. I finally got to try it out last year when I visited Japan because if I messed up it would be with a girl halfway around the world I'd never see again haha. Anyways I successfully did it and now my friends sometimes call me Macho Sugoi because that's what the girls said when I did it lol. 8 girls later and I'm trying to get to 10, almost there. I'm kinda afraid I'll quit going to the gym when I hit 10 though, what's the point afterwards

Typing this out really does make it sound like a stupid goal dream.
22026 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
22 / F
Offline
Posted 7/7/17 , edited 7/7/17
I went through a period in my life where I didn't have any goals and ambitions and it was a terrible place to be. I would just look around me and see other people pursuing their goals and dreams. For two years I thought about my likes, looked on the internet, and asked for advice from my friends and family. Eventually I came to the conclusion that I wanted to learn Japanese. Now I can speak enough Japanese to get by in Japan, but every once in awhile I wonder about what dreams I have. I like learning Japanese, but I didn't have a set goal; so I made myself one in the hopes that eventually I'll start to want and desire said goal. I can happily say that my goal is to become fluent enough that I can work as a freelance translator translating books. I get frustrated sometimes at the slow pace that I'm learning, but since Japanese is a hard language to learn I just have to deal with it and learn in moderation. I am satisfied with the fact that no matter how long it takes, I will one day reach my goal.
42 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
22 / M
Offline
Posted 7/7/17 , edited 7/7/17
yea thats me I set many goals but never accomplish any of them.
103 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
29 / F
Offline
Posted 7/7/17 , edited 7/8/17
I have my own small goals. I never found my "true calling" and the idea of it has brought me a lot of unhappiness.
-OlE- 
1818 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
24 / M / Nebraska
Offline
Posted 7/8/17 , edited 7/8/17

thatgirl202 wrote:

So, are you one of those people who do not have any goals, dreams, or aspirations in your life? You kind of have nothing going for you at the moment or at all.

Yes


What do you think?

that I am pathetic.

Then again, is it my fault? I have no talents whatsoever, like I'm not good at anything. Some people compensate with their looks or brains or even good humor but I lack all that lmao I'm 100% serious here, I have nothing good on me and if I die tomorrow I think I would be making this world a favor.

I always have to work hard to do something but I never reach that wow place, it is always the average place, the mediocre one.

I feel mad, like I want to be mad at someone because of this.


you don't sound pathetic to me you just sound normal
normal is ok
then again i may be biased i am quite normal myself :P
sorry if i sound preachy i struggle with self worth myself heck your post sounds like it could come from me on certain days
First  Prev  1  2  3  Next  Last
You must be logged in to post.