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Posted 8/5/17 , edited 8/5/17
Everyone is different, I guess? Lol. Pretty much what this guy said.


Its_My_Style wrote:

Pretty easy if you look at how they act around you compared to how they act around others. Though I'm not fond of chasing games, if you cant tell me how you feel to my face ill act as though I don't notice a thing.

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Ask her. That's what the vocal cords are for.
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Posted 8/5/17 , edited 8/6/17
Pretty easy, drop something on the floor like a pen and make a forced "accidental" touch if they try to pick it up and see how they react. I feel like this shouldn't be said as you SHOULD know this, but don't touch in a sexual way!

Trying to flirt with them also works lmao
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I love how all you guys think we're so complicated. We're not. It's not fucking rocket science. You think way too hard about it.
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If they seem to not mind helping you with boring or even unpleasant tasks - and not just once, but multiple times - it's a sign. I met my wife while volunteering, and I first figured out how she felt about me when she would always be on hand to help me with tedious things that NO ONE wanted to do, like stuffing invitations into hundreds of envelopes.

If they find reasons to be around you or hold even brief conversations with you about nothing important (when most people wouldn't say anything), it's also a sign. When someone really likes you, even mundane exchanges about the selection in the vending machine become magical to that person. Using my wife as an example again, before we started dating she would send me little emails or IMs (this was before texting was a thing) about nothing in particular that mystified me until I finally bought a clue.

Now, I'm not saying that someone helping you sweep the floor means they have a thing for you. I'm just saying that these are small signs that may not mean anything, but then again they might mean something.
Posted 8/5/17 , edited 8/6/17
You an Fred should get together you seem very confused by woman he was working on a girl manual?
good luck with that.

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marklebid wrote:

I can't say with certainty because people are obviously not straightforward all the time. It seems the majority of hetero males (myself included) is always inclined to suspect every female likes them at least a little, as part of our overinflated ego.


lol wut
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if they sit really close to you....that might be a hint
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Generally if a girl likes you she will make a lot of eye contact when shes speaking with you, smile and laugh at what you say, and physical contact is usually a good sign. Like even little things like putting her hand on the side of your arm while she is talking with you.
I dunno i think body language and tone of voice, the look in their eyes are usually all good indicators.

It can be hard to tell though because some women are just friendly and nice to everyone. And a girl being nice to you and talking to you can be mistaken for her being interested. Like when you're talking to a girl behind a counter at a shop or something. It can often seem that she is genuinely interested in you but really shes just doing her job.
And some women seemingly flirt with everyone and hug every guy.

But i think it's often obvious. If a girl is going out of her way to talk to you or wave to you, finding reasons and excuses to ask you for help such as asking you to open her drink for her or something like that.
And if shes laughing a lot it's a pretty good indicator.

I guess some girls are shy as well so that could be harder to tell.
But in my experience it's often the guy that is shy or clueless and the girl being the instigator and making it obvious that she is interested.

If she aint being very talkative, aint laughing at your jokes and never physically touches you, she aint interested.





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Merrpies wrote:

I love how all you guys think we're so complicated. We're not. It's not fucking rocket science. You think way too hard about it.


Men who are terrible at interacting with women need something to complain about.
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Merrpies wrote:

I love how all you guys think we're so complicated. We're not. It's not fucking rocket science. You think way too hard about it.


Boys and girls (adult & teen) all play games. It's not a gender thing. And I agree it's not rocket science, but people get so blinded by their affection that it can be difficult to see or admit.

I'll admit I lead some girls on in high school even though I had a girlfriend (in a different school). It was a shitty thing to do but I was young. I liked the attention and the flirting. I was an asshole but I never cheated.
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Posted 8/6/17 , edited 8/6/17
https://internetoracle.org/bestof.cgi?N=1451-1475#1456-01

Guy who likes you: Beard or stubble, deep voice, adam's apple, male
genitalia.

Girl who likes you: Little or no trace of beard, high voice, female
genitalia.

Look, if you're having trouble discerning which is which, you have more
troubles than you need.

The Oracle owes you a security blanket.
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i can tell if they like me, but what i can't tell is if they love me. thats where i have the problem. im like sure, they like me....but how much? most dont know how to show it.
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Enixspirit wrote:

i can tell if they like me, but what i can't tell is if they love me. thats where i have the problem. im like sure, they like me....but how much? most dont know how to show it.


You're putting the cart in front of the horse. Start from the point of view of two people liking each other.
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I can't tell even if they directly say it.

Them:
Yeah, I like you. We should hangout some time?
My thoughts: Oh what, someone actually wants to be my friend!?


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