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I have to agree with what Zenpie said. I read the whole thing and it seem like a very big over reaction to a little problem. I understand that having a non-binary gender may make you feel different and uneasy, but I assure you that most people are not going to attack you because of your gender identity. The world is not that much of a twisted place. Yes it is true that there is exception I will not lie the world can be ugly at time, but more than often media coverage make those numbers appear way worst than they truly are.

I suggest to take a breather and to re-evaluate your position on this and seek therapeutic help if necessary.
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well, okay. best of lick.
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Why self promote being trans at every opportunity that you get if you cant handle some back lash or trolling or people not all going out of their way to show you love(or showing false acceptance and love)?
Just a thought. (you could just post without all the self promotion and act like you're just one of us)
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Kefkapwnsall wrote:

I hoped I could change one mind but I guess no. After amlej0's traps comment I feel no longer safe as a trans woman posting so I'm leaving @staff please please ban all the transphobes this environment is toxic and deadly for lgbt


I would have to say that it appears that you've constantly attempted to become a martyr to the transgender community.
Unfortunately, not everyone on the planet is going to agree with your lifestyle, your views on things, or even the things you like in the world.
Toxicity is something that one is always going to be exposed to, no matter what forum or state or country you live in.
One thing you should know is that it doesn't matter that you're transgender/transsexual.
At the core, I'm certain that nobody on Crunchyroll genuinely cares (at all) that you're transgender/sexual.
You will always have trolls.
You will always have people who disagree with you.
This, unfortunately, is a fact of life.
Just like you are unable to make everyone in the world agree with you and your views on yourself, they cannot make you change your views either.
This is the great thing about humanity and individualism.
Instead of painting yourself out to be a victim of toxicity on the forums, you should just post here without focusing on a minor part of your personality (yes, gender and sexuality are both minor elements of the personality - which you should know well at this point).
Otherwise, you're just trying to paint yourself as the shining warrior for transgenderism on a forum that has a great divide in views on the matter.

You don't see everybody who's homosexual jump on every thread where someone says "lulz, dat's gei" or "wotta feg game LULZ".
Nor do you see everyone who's heterosexual try to throw it down as if it makes them superior or "better".
Nobody cares.
The only person who does is you.
That's why trolls will always target you. They know they can get under your skin.
Just be you, stop worrying about what others think, just chill out and enjoy Crunchyroll.
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this place is pretty tame compared to twitter
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Just be thankful you are not a conservative as well.
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spensaur wrote:

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Kefkapwnsall wrote:

I hoped I could change one mind but I guess no. After amlej0's traps comment I feel no longer safe as a trans woman posting so I'm leaving @staff please please ban all the transphobes this environment is toxic and deadly for lgbt




Cardamom_Ginger wrote:

I read the comments in question. You are either intentionally deceitful, Kefka, or unreasonably sensitive. If honest (or otherwise, really), you have demonstrated that you cannot tolerate average disagreements and jokes, given that the person you are trying to throw under the bus was behaving quite civilly. Unusually civil, I daresay. Don't let the door hit you on the way out, Kefka.


I don't entirely agree with that... Being someone who has in the past been overly defensive I feel I can offer a little (Obvious) insight. From my experience the automatic deflection stems from a low self esteem or sense of worth. That's not to say that I defend her clear and intentional cries to have people defend her when it is clear that she is manipulating a fair bit of information here.

Speaking directly to you Kefka, people, at the end of the day are selfish. By and large (And especially in this community) they aren't going to be very conscious of your feelings. It seems as though you are looking at conflict as someone trying to deny your identity. Maybe I'm totally wrong here, and if so, I apologize but as someone who was once comparing my worth to others and trying to defend myself I think that it may actually do you some good to distance yourself from it and really reflect on the heart of what people mean in certain instances.

For example, maybe it wasn't an attack on you. Maybe it was an attack on the generalizations people have on their experiences with people who identify in different ways but if they actually had a moment to meet you in person, they may love you. Should you allow your thoughts to pertain to conflict? Or should they pertain to the actual nuance and the anonymity of the situation?

Dunno if that helped at all, but really, I don't think very many people here would do you harm outside of the childish words they say in moments of passion and ignorance.
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Kefka, from what I've seen, you don't know the difference between harassment or threats, and general dumb shit that happens on the forums. You twist people's words, overreact, and have no chill. I am inclined to doubt your stated reason for leaving, although I don't doubt that you believe it.

Mmmkaybyenow. #sorrynotsorry. Have a good life, and hopefully you'll find a place you like.
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"oh no, someone dont like the lgbt community! someone has a oppinion that conflicts with my own! its harrasment, HARRASMENT!!! BAN THEM!! BAN THEM ALL!!"
if you want to leave CR just because someone has a different oppinion in this subject then good riddance.


stop beeing so fucking salty over every last freakin thing you see on the internet, last i checked, the rules is not supposed to be your version of "political correctnes" and it is most certainly not up to you to decide who is and is not baned.

just grow up allready and learn to accept what you was born as and not what you want to be, i want to be a lovecraftian Eldritch Abomination, but you dont see me running around on the internet identifying as one, i was born a man, so thus i AM a man,
there is only 4 sexual orientations, hetrosexual, homosexual, asexual and bisexual, male or female, man or woman, this is defined by biology and noting you say or do will ever change that. if you think you identify as something else than what you was born as then you suffer from a mental disorder.
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theldras89 wrote:

"oh no, someone dont like the lgbt community! someone has a oppinion that conflicts with my own! its harrasment, HARRASMENT!!! BAN THEM!! BAN THEM ALL!!"
if you want to leave CR just because someone has a different oppinion in this subject then good riddance.


stop beeing so fucking salty over every last freakin thing you see on the internet, last i checked, the rules is not supposed to be your version of "political correctnes" and it is most certainly not up to you to decide who is and is not baned.

just grow up allready and learn to accept what you was born as and not what you want to be, i want to be a lovecraftian Eldritch Abomination, but you dont see me running around on the internet identifying as one, i was born a man, so thus i AM a man,
there is only 4 sexual orientations, hetrosexual, homosexual, asexual and bisexual, male or female, man or woman, this is defined by biology and noting you say or do will ever change that. if you think you identify as something else than what you was born as then you suffer from a mental disorder.


can we PLEASE not go there?
dont preach, no one likes a preacher.
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